of
policy,
namely, whether we should
attach ourselves to the two
parties already in
existence, according to our individual
inclinations, or whether we should form a third party for
ourselves. We finally accepted the former
proposition, and I think
wisely; for the most of us were so
ignorant of political tricks and
devices, that we still needed to learn from the men, and we could
not afford to draw upon us the
hostility of both parties, in the
very
infancy of our movement.
Never in my life did I have such a task, as in drumming up a
few women to attend the
primarytownship meeting for the election
of delegates. It was impossible to make them
comprehend its
importance. Even after I had done my best to explain the
technicalities of male
politics, and fancied that I had made some
impression, the answer would be: "Well, I'd go, I'm sure, just to
oblige you, but then there's the tomatoes to be canned"--or, "I'm
so behindhand with my darning and patching"--or, "John'll be sure
to go, and there's no need of two from the same house"--and so on,
until I was mightily discouraged. There were just nine of us, all
told, to about a hundred men. I won't deny that our situation that
night, at the Wrangle House, was
awkward and not entirely
agreeable. To be sure the
landlord gave us the
parlor, and most of
the men came in, now and then, to speak to us; but they managed the
principal matters all by themselves, in the bar-room, which was
such a mess of smoke and stale
liquor smells, that it turned my
stomach when I ventured in for two minutes.
I don't think we should have
accomplished much, but for a 'cute
idea of Mrs. Wilbur, the tinman's wife. She went to the leaders,
and threatened them that the women's vote should be cast in a body
for the Democratic candidates, unless we were considered in making
up the ticket. THAT helped: the delegates were properly
instructed, and the County Convention afterward nominated two men
and one woman as candidates for the Assembly. That woman was--as
I need hardly say, for the world knows it--myself. I had not
solicited the honor, and
therefore could not refuse,
especially as my daughter Melissa was then old enough to keep house
in my
absence. No woman had
applied for the
nomination for
Sheriff, but there were seventeen schoolmistresses
anxious for the
office of County Treasurer. The only other
nomination given to the
women, however, was that of Director (or rather, Directress) of the
Poor, which was conferred on Mrs. Bassett, wife of a clergyman.
Mr. Strongitharm insisted that I should, in some wise, prepare
myself for my new duties, by
reading various political works, and
I conscientiously tried to do so--but, dear me! it was much more of
a task than I
supposed. We had all read the
debate on our bill, of
course; but I always skipped the dry,
stupid stuff about the
tariff, and
finance, and stay laws and exemption laws, and railroad
company squabbles; and for the life of me I can't see, to this day,
what
connection there is between these things and Women's Rights.
But, as I said, I did my best, with the help of Webster's
Dictionary; although the further I went the less I liked it.
As election-day drew nearer, our prospects looked brighter. The
Republican ticket, under the
editorial head of the "Burroak
Banner," with my name and Mrs. Bassett's among the men's, was such
an evidence, that many women,
notably opposed to the cause, said:
"We didn't want the right, but since we have it, we shall make use
of it." This was exactly what Mrs. Whiston had
foretold. We
estimated that--taking the County tickets all over the State--we
had about one-twentieth of the Republican, and one-fiftieth of
the Democratic,
nominations. This was far from being our due, but
still it was a good beginning.
My husband insisted that I should go very early to the polls. I
could scarcely
restrain a tear of
emotion as I gave my first ballot
into the hands of the judges. There were not a dozen persons
present, and the act did not produce the
sensation which I
expected. One man cried out: "Three cheers for our
Assemblywoman!" and they gave them; and I
thereupon returned home
in the best spirits. I
devoted the rest of the day to relieving
poorer women, who could not have spared the time to vote, if I had
not,
meanwhile, looked after their children. The last was Nancy
Black, the shoemaker's wife in our street, who kept me
waiting upon
her till it was quite dark. When she finally came, the skirt of
her dress was ripped nearly off, her hair was down and her comb
broken; but she was
triumphant, for Sam Black was with her, and
SOBER." The first time since we were married, Mrs.
Strongitharm!" she cried. Then she whispered to me, as I was
leaving: "And I've killed HIS vote, anyhow!"
When the count was made, our party was far ahead. Up to this time,
I think, the men of both parties had believed that only a few
women, here and there, would avail themselves of their new right--
but they were roundly
mistaken. Although only ten per cent. of the
female voters went to the polls, yet three-fourths of them voted
the Republican ticket, which increased the majority of that party,
in the State, about eleven thousand.
It was
amazing what an effect followed this result. The whole
country would have rung with it, had we not been in the midst of
war. Mr. Wrangle declared that he had always been an earnest
advocate of the women's cause. Governor Battle, in his next
message, congratulated the State on the signal success of the
experiment, and the Democratic masses, smarting under their defeat,
cursed their leaders for not having been sharp enough to conciliate
the new element. The leaders themselves said nothing, and in a few
weeks the rank and file recovered their
cheerfulness. Even Mrs.
Whiston, with all her experience, was a little puzzled by this
change of mood. Alas! she was far from guessing the correct
explanation.
It was a great comfort to me that Mrs. Whiston was also elected to
the Legislature. My husband had just then established his
manufactory of
patent self-scouring knife-blades (now so
celebrated), and could not leave; so I was obliged to go up to
Gaston all alone, when the
session commenced. There were but four
of us Assemblywomen, and although the men treated us with great
courtesy, I was that
nervous that I seemed to
detect either
commiseration or
satire everywhere. Before I had even taken my
seat, I was addressed by fifteen or twenty different gentlemen,
either great capitalists, or great engineers, or distinguished
lawyers, all interested in various schemes for developing the
resources of our State by new railroads, canals or ferries. I then
began to
comprehend the
grandeur of the Legislator's office. My
voice could
assist in making possible these magnificent
improvements, and I promised it to all. Mr. Filch, President
of the Shinnebaug and Great Western Consolidated Line, was so
delighted with my
appreciation of his plan for reducing the freight
on grain from Nebraska, that he must have written extravagant
accounts of me to his wife; for she sent me, at Christmas, one of
the loveliest shawls I ever beheld.
I had frequently made short addresses at our public meetings, and
was considered to have my share of self-pos
session; but I never
could
accustom myself to the keen, disturbing, irritating
atmosphere of the Legislature. Everybody seemed wide-awake and
aggressive, instead of
pleasantly receptive; there were so many
"points of order," and what not; such complete
disregard, among the
members, of each other's feelings; and, finally--a thing I could
never understand, indeed--such inconsistency and lack of principle
in the
intercourse of the two parties. How could I feel
assured of
their
sincerity, when I saw the very men chatting and laughing
together, in the lobbies, ten minutes after they had been facing
each other like angry lions in the
debate?
Mrs. Whiston, also, had her trials of the same
character. Nothing
ever annoyed her so much as a little
blunder she made, the week
after the
opening of the
session. I have not yet mentioned that
there was already a
universaldissatisfaction among the women, on
account of their being
liable to military service. The war seemed
to have hardly begun, as yet, and conscription was already talked
about; the women,
therefore, clamored for an exemption on
account of sex. Although we all felt that this was a retrograde
movement, the
pressure was so great that we yielded. Mrs. Whiston,
reluctant at first, no sooner made up her mind that the thing must