variety and jollity of
youthful pleasures, life may be well enough
supported without the help of a
partner. Longer time will increase
experience, and wider views will allow better opportunities of
inquiry and
selection; one
advantage at least will be certain, the
parents will be visibly older than their children."
"What reason cannot collect," and Nekayah, "and what experiment has
not yet taught, can be known only from the report of others. I
have been told that late marriages are not eminently happy. This
is a question too important to be neglected; and I have often
proposed it to those whose
accuracy of remark and comprehensiveness
of knowledge made their suffrages
worthy of regard. They have
generally determined that it is dangerous for a man and woman to
suspend their fate upon each other at a time when opinions are
fixed and habits are established, when friendships have been
contracted on both sides, when life has been planned into method,
and the mind has long enjoyed the
contemplation of its own
prospects.
"It is scarcely possible that two travelling through the world
under the conduct of chance should have been both directed to the
same path, and it will not often happen that either will quit the
track which custom has made
pleasing. When the desultory levity of
youth has settled into regularity, it is soon succeeded by pride
ashamed to yield, or
obstinacy delighting to
contend. And even
though
mutualesteem produces
mutual desire to please, time itself,
as it modifies unchangeably the
external mien, determines
likewisethe direction of the
passions, and gives an inflexible rigidity to
the manners. Long customs are not easily broken; he that attempts
to change the course of his own life very often labours in vain,
and how shall we do that for others which we are seldom able to do
for ourselves?"
"But surely," interposed the Prince, "you suppose the chief motive
of choice forgotten or neglected. Whenever I shall seek a wife, it
shall be my first question whether she be
willing to be led by
reason."
"Thus it is," said Nekayah, "that philosophers are
deceived. There
are a thousand familiar disputes which reason never can decide;
questions that elude
investigation, and make logic ridiculous;
cases where something must be done, and where little can be said.
Consider the state of mankind, and inquire how few can be supposed
to act upon any occasions, whether small or great, with all the
reasons of action present to their minds. Wretched would be the
pair, above all names of
wretchedness, who should be doomed to
adjust by reason every morning all the minute details of a domestic
day.
"Those who marry at an
advanced age will probably escape the
encroachments of their children, but in the diminution of this
advantage they will be likely to leave them,
ignorant and helpless,
to a guardian's mercy; or if that should not happen, they must at
least go out of the world before they see those whom they love best
either wise or great.
"From their children, if they have less to fear, they have less
also to hope; and they lose without
equivalent the joys of early
love, and the
convenience of uniting with manners pliant and minds
susceptible of new impressions, which might wear away their
dissimilitudes by long cohabitation, as soft bodies by
continual
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- obstinate [´ɔbstinit] a.顽固的;(病)难治的 (英语四级单词)
- entangle [in´tæŋgəl] vt.缠住;纠纷;牵连 (英语四级单词)
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- complication [,kɔmpli´keiʃən] n.复杂;混乱;纠纷 (英语四级单词)
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- forbear [fɔ:´beə, fə-] v.容忍;克制 n.祖先 (英语四级单词)
- prudence [´pru:dəns] n.谨慎;慎重;节俭 (英语四级单词)
- ardour [´ɑ:də] n.热心,热情 (英语四级单词)
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- voluntary [´vɔləntəri] a.自愿的;义务的 (英语四级单词)
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- forsake [fə´seik] vt.遗弃,抛弃,摒绝 (英语四级单词)
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- contemplation [,kɔntem´pleiʃən] n.注视;冥想;打算 (英语四级单词)
- obstruct [əb´strʌkt] vt.阻塞;阻挡;挡住 (英语六级单词)
- intercept [,intə´sept] vt.拦截;截获;窃听 (英语六级单词)
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- intestine [in´testin] a.内部的;国内的 n.肠 (英语六级单词)
- discord [´diskɔ:d] n.不一致;不和谐 (英语六级单词)
- frailty [´freilti] n.脆弱;意志薄弱 (英语六级单词)
- rivalry [´raivəlri] n.竞争;竞赛;敌对 (英语六级单词)
- obstinacy [´ɔbstinəsi] n.顽固;(病痛等)难治 (英语六级单词)