the large, simple divisions of society: a strong and positive
spirit robustly
virtuous, who has chosen a better part
coarsely, and holds to it steadfastly, with all its
consequences of pain to himself and others; as one who should
go straight before him on a journey, neither tempted by
wayside flowers nor very scrupulous of small lives under
foot. It was in
virtue of this latter
disposition that Knox
was
capable of those intimacies with women that embellished
his life; and we find him preserved for us in old letters as
a man of many women friends; a man of some
expansion toward
the other sex; a man ever ready to comfort
weeping women, and
to weep along with them.
Of such scraps and fragments of evidence as to his private
life and more
intimate thoughts as have survived to us from
all the perils that environ written paper, an astonishingly
large
proportion is in the shape of letters to women of his
familiarity. He was twice married, but that is not greatly
to the purpose; for the Turk, who thinks even more meanly of
women than John Knox, is none the less given to marrying.
What is really
significant is quite apart from marriage. For
the man Knox was a true man, and woman, the EWIG-WEIBLICHE,
was as necessary to him, in spite of all low theories, as
ever she was to Goethe. He came to her in a certain halo of
his own, as the
minister of truth, just as Goethe came to her
in a glory of art; he made himself necessary to troubled
hearts and minds exercised in the
painful complications that
naturally result from all changes in the world's way of
thinking; and those whom he had thus helped became dear to
him, and were made the chosen companions of his
leisure if
they were at hand, or encouraged and comforted by letter if
they were afar.
It must not be forgotten that Knox had been a presbyter of
the old Church, and that the many women whom we shall see
gathering around him, as he goes through life, had probably
been accustomed, while still in the
communion of Rome, to
rely much upon some chosen
spiritualdirector, so that the
intimacies of which I propose to offer some
account, while
testifying to a good heart in the Reformer,
testify also to a
certain survival of the spirit of the confessional in the
Reformed Church, and are not
properly to be judged without
this idea. There is no friendship so noble, but it is the
product of the time; and a world of little finical
observances, and little frail proprieties and fashions of the
hour, go to make or to mar, to stint or to perfect, the union
of spirits the most
loving and the most intolerant of such
interference. The trick of the country and the age steps in
even between the mother and her child, counts out their
caresses upon niggardly fingers, and says, in the voice of
authority, that this one thing shall be a matter of
confidence between them, and this other thing shall not. And
thus it is that we must take into
reckoningwhatever tended
to modify the social
atmosphere in which Knox and his women
friends met, and loved and trusted each other. To the man
who had been their
priest and was now their
minister, women
would be able to speak with a confidence quite impossible in
these latter days; the women would be able to speak, and the
man to hear. It was a
beaten road just then; and I daresay
we should be no less scandalised at their plain speech than
they, if they could come back to earth, would be offended at
our waltzes and
worldly fashions. This, then, was the
footing on which Knox stood with his many women friends. The
reader will see, as he goes on, how much of
warmth, of
interest, and of that happy
mutualdependence which is the
very gist of friendship, he contrived to ingraft upon this
somewhat dry
relationship of
penitent and confessor.
It must be understood that we know nothing of his
intercoursewith women (as indeed we know little at all about his life)
until he came to Berwick in 1549, when he was already in the
forty-fifth year of his age. At the same time it is just
possible that some of a little group at Edinburgh, with whom
he corresponded during his last
absence, may have been
friends of an older
standing. Certainly they were, of all
his
female correspondents, the least
personallyfavoured. He
treats them throughout in a
comprehensive sort of spirit that
must at times have been a little wounding. Thus, he remits
one of them to his former letters, "which I trust be common
betwixt you and the rest of our sisters, for to me ye are all
equal in Christ." (1) Another letter is a gem in this way.
"Albeit" it begins, "albeit I have no particular matter to
write unto you,
beloved sister, yet I could not
refrain to
write these few lines to you in
declaration of my remembrance
of you. True it is that I have many whom I bear in equal
remembrance before God with you, to whom at present I write
nothing, either for that I
esteem them stronger than you, and
therefore they need the less my rude labours, or else because
they have not provoked me by their
writing to recompense
their remembrance." (2) His "sisters in Edinburgh" had
evidently to "provoke his attention pretty
constantly; nearly
all his letters are, on the face of them, answers to
questions, and the answers are given with a certain crudity
that I do not find
repeated when he writes to those he really
cares for. So when they
consult him about women's
apparel (a
subject on which his opinion may be pretty
correctly imagined
by the
ingenious reader for himself) he takes occasion to
anticipate some of the most
offensive matter of the "First
Blast" in a style of real brutality. (3) It is not merely
that he tells them "the garments of women do declare their
weakness and
inability to
execute the office of man," though
that in itself is neither very wise nor very opportune in
such a
correspondence one would think; but if the reader will
take the trouble to wade through the long,
tedioussermon for
himself, he will see proof enough that Knox neither loved,
nor very deeply respected, the women he was then addressing.
In very truth, I believe these Edinburgh sisters simply bored
him. He had a certain interest in them as his children in
the Lord; they were
continually "provoking him by their
writing;" and, if they handed his letters about,
writing to
them was as good a form of
publication as was then open to
him in Scotland. There is one letter, however, in this
budget, addressed to the wife of Clerk-Register Mackgil,
which is
worthy of some further mention. The Clerk-Register
had not opened his heart, it would appear, to the
preaching
of the Gospel, and Mrs. Mackgil has written, seeking the
Reformer's prayers in his
behalf. "Your husband," he
answers, "is dear to me for that he is a man indued with some
good gifts, but more dear for that he is your husband.
Charity moveth me to
thirst his
illumination, both for his
comfort and for the trouble which you
sustain by his
coldness, which
justly may be called infidelity." He wishes
her, however, not to hope too much; he can promise that his
prayers will be
earnest, but not that they will be effectual;
it is possible that this is to be her "cross" in life; that
"her head, appointed by God for her comfort, should be her
enemy." And if this be so, well, there is nothing for it;
"with
patience she must abide God's
mercifuldeliverance,"
taking heed only that she does not "obey
manifest iniquity
for the pleasure of any
mortal man." (4) I
conceive this
epistle would have given a very modified sort of pleasure to
the Clerk-Register, had it chanced to fall into his hands.
Compare its tenor - the dry
resignation not without a hope of
mercifuldeliverancetherein recommended - with these words
from another letter, written but the year before to two
married women of London: "Call first for grace by Jesus, and
thereafter
communicate with your
faithful husbands, and then
shall God, I doubt not, conduct your footsteps, and direct
your counsels to His glory." (5) Here the husbands are put