their due share of high-sounding titles and epithets;
and, be it whispered, these same
distinguished" target="_blank" title="a.卓越的,著名的">
distinguished people,
however broad-minded and magnanimous they may be in other respects,
are sometimes
extremelysensitive in this respect.
And even after one has mastered all the rules and forms,
and can
appreciate and
distinguish the various nice shades which exist
between "His Serene Highness", "His Highness", "His Royal Highness",
and "His Imperial Highness", or between "Rt. Rev." and "Most Rev.",
one has yet to learn what titles a particular person has,
and with what particular form of address he should be approached,
an impossible task even for a Master of Ceremonies,
unless he always has in his pocket a Burke's Peerage to tell him who's who.
What a waste of time, what an
inconvenience, and what an unnecessary
amountof
irritation and
annoyance all this causes. How much better
to be able to address any person you meet simply as Mr. So-and-So,
without unwittingly treading on somebody's
sensitive corns!
Americans have shown their common sense in doing away with titles altogether,
an example which the sister Republic of China is following.
An
illustrious name loses nothing for having to stand by itself
without prefixes and suffixes, handles and tails. Mr. Gladstone
was no less himself for not prefixing his name with Earl,
and the other titles to which it would have entitled him,
as he could have done had he not declined the
so-called honor.
Indeed, like the "Great Commoner", he, if that were possible,
endeared himself the more to his countrymen because of his
refusal. A name,
which is great without resorting to the borrowed light of titles and honors,
is greater than any possible suffix or affix which could be appended to it.
In
conclusion, American manners are but an
instance or result of
the two predominant American
characteristics to which I have already referred,
and which
reappear in so many other things American.
A love of
independence and of
equality, early inculcated,
and a keen abhorrence of waste of time, engendered by the conditions
and circumstances of a new country, serve to explain practically all
the manners and mannerisms of Americans. Even the familiar spectacle
of men walking with their hands deep in their trousers' pockets,
or sitting with their legs crossed needs no other explanation,
and to suggest that, because Americans have some habits
which are
peculiarly their own, they are either
inferior or unmanly,
would be to do them a grave injustice.
Few people are more warm-hearted,
genial, and sociable than the Americans.
I do not dwell on this, because it is quite unnecessary. The fact
is
perfectly familiar to all who have the slightest knowledge of them.
Their kindness and
warmth to strangers are particularly pleasant,
and are much
appreciated by their
visitors. In some other countries,
the people, though not unsociable, surround themselves with so much reserve
that strangers are at first chilled and repulsed, although there are
no pleasanter or more
hospitable persons
anywhere to be found
when once you have broken the ice, and
learned to know them;
but it is the stranger who must make the first advances,
for they themselves will make no effort to become acquainted,
and their manner is such as to
discourage any efforts on the part
of the
visitor. You may travel with them for hours in the same car,
sit opposite to them, and all the while they will shelter themselves
behind a newspaper, the broad sheets of which
effectively prohibit
any attempts at closer
acquaintance. The following
instance,
culled from a personal experience, is an
illustration. I was a law student
at Lincoln's Inn, London, where there is a splendid law library for the use
of the students and members of the Inn. I used to go there almost every day
to
pursue my legal studies, and generally sat in the same quiet corner.
The seat on the opposite side of the table was usually occupied
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- declaration [,deklə´reiʃən] n.宣布;宣言;申报 (高中英语单词)
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- so-called [´sou ´kɔ:ld] a.所谓的,号称的 (高中英语单词)
- relationship [ri´leiʃənʃip] n.关系;联系;亲属关系 (高中英语单词)
- obedience [ə´bi:djəns] n.服从;顺从 (高中英语单词)
- manhood [´mænhud] n.人格;男子气概 (高中英语单词)
- characteristic [,kæriktə´ristik] a.特有的 n.特性 (高中英语单词)
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- narrative [´nærətiv] a.叙述的 n.记事 (高中英语单词)
- encouragement [in´kʌridʒmənt] n.鼓励;赞助;引诱 (高中英语单词)
- regime [rei´ʒi:m] n.政体;社会制度 (高中英语单词)
- efficient [i´fiʃənt] a.有效的,有能力的 (高中英语单词)
- conservative [kən´sə:vətiv] a.保守的 n.保守者 (高中英语单词)
- butler [´bʌtlə] n.(男)管家 (高中英语单词)
- housekeeper [´haus,ki:pə] n.主妇,女管家 (高中英语单词)
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- courtesy [´kə:tisi] n.礼貌;殷勤;好意 (高中英语单词)
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- accordance [ə´kɔ:dəns] n.一致;调和 (高中英语单词)
- distinguished [di´stiŋgwiʃt] a.卓越的,著名的 (高中英语单词)
- serene [si´ri:n] n.&a.清澈的;宁静的 (高中英语单词)
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- beautifully [´bju:tifəli] ad.美丽地;优美地 (英语四级单词)
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- designate [´dezignit, -neit] vt.标明;任命 (英语四级单词)
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- precedent [´presidənt] n.先例 a.在先的 (英语四级单词)
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- annoyance [ə´nɔiəns] n.烦恼事(人) (英语四级单词)
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