all whose only interest is that which has its birth with the day
and disappears with the night.
Banquets and dinners in America, as in China, are, however,
often far removed from frivolities. Statesmen sometimes
select these opportunities for a pronouncement of their policy,
even the President of the nation may
occasionally think it advisable
to do this. Speeches delivered on such occasions are generally reported
in all the newspapers, and, of course, discussed by all sorts of people,
the wise and the
otherwise, so that the
speaker has to be
very careful as to what he says. Our President confines himself
to the more
formalprocedure of issuing an official
mandate, the same in kind,
though differing in expression, as an American President's Inaugural Address,
or one of his Messages to Congress.
Commercial men do not understand and are
impatient with the restrictions
which hedge round a Foreign Minister, and in their
anxiety to get
speakers
they will look
anywhere. On one occasion I received an invitation
to go to Canada to attend a
banquet at a Commercial Club
in one of the
principal Canadian cities. It would have given me
great pleasure to be able to
comply with this request,
as I had not then visited that country, but,
contrary to inclination,
I had to decline. I was accredited as Minister to Washington,
and did not feel at liberty to visit another country
without the special
permission of my Home Government.
Public
speaking, like any other art, has to be cultivated.
However scholarly a man may be, and however clever he may be
in private conversation, when called upon to speak in public
he may sometimes make a very poor
impression. I have known
highly placed foreign officials, with
deserved reputations
for
wisdom and
ability, who were shockingly poor
speakers at
banquets.
They would
hesitate and almost
stammer, and would prove quite incapable
of expressing their thoughts in any
sensible or
intelligent manner.
In this respect, personal observations have convinced me that Americans,
as a rule, are better
speakers than. . . . (I will not mention
the
nationality in my mind, it might give offense.) An American,
who, without
previous notice, is called upon to speak,
generally acquits himself creditably. He is nearly always witty,
appreciative, and frank. This is due, I believe, to the thorough-going nature
of his education: he is taught to be self-confident, to believe in
his own
ability to create, to express his opinions without fear.
A diffident and retiring man, whose chief
characteristic is
extreme modesty,
is not likely to be a good
speaker; but Americans are free from this weakness.
Far be it from me to suggest that there are no good
speakers
in other countries. America can by no means claim a
monopoly of
orators;
there are many
elsewhere whose sage sayings and forcible logic
are
appreciated by all who hear or read them; but, on the whole,
Americans excel others in the
readiness of their wit,
and their power to make a good extempore speech on any subject,
without opportunity for preparation.
Neither is the fair sex in America behind the men in this matter.
I have heard some most excellent speeches by women, speeches which
would do credit to an
orator; but they labor under a dis
advantage.
The
female voice is soft and low, it is not easily heard in a large room,
and
consequently the
audience sometimes does not
appreciate lady
speakers
to the
extent that they
deserve. However, I know a lady who possesses
a powerful,
masculine voice, and who is a very popular
speaker,
but she is an
exception. Anyhow I believe the worst
speaker,
male or
female, could improve by practising private declamation,
and
awakening to the importance of articulation, modulation, and -- the pause.
Another class of social
functions are "At Homes", tea parties, and
receptions.
The number of guests invited to these is almost unlimited,
it may be one or two dozen, or one or two dozen hundreds.
The purpose of these is usually to meet some
distinguished stranger,
some guest in the house, or the newly married daughter of the
hostess.
It is impossible for the host or
hostess to remember all those who attend,
or even all who have been invited to attend; generally visitors
leave their cards, although many do not even observe this rule,
but walk right in as if they owned the house. When a
newcomer is introduced
his name is scarcely
audible, and before the
hostess,
or the
distinguished guest, has exchanged more than one or two words with him,
another stranger comes along, so that it is quite excusable
if the next time the hosts meet these people they do not recognize them.
In China a new fashion is now in vogue; new acquaintances exchange cards.
If this custom should be adopted in America there would be less complaints
about new friends receiving the cold shoulder from those who they thought
should have known them.
In large
receptions, such as those mentioned above, however spacious
the
reception hall, in a great many instances there is not even
standing room
for all who attend. It requires but little
imagination to understand
the condition of the
atmosphere when there is no proper ventilation.
Now, what always astonished me was, that although the
parlor might be
crowdedwith ladies and gentlemen, all the windows were, as a rule, kept closed,
with the result that the place was full of vitiated air.
Frequently after a short time I have had to slip away
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willingly have remained longer to enjoy the
charming company.
If I had done so, however, I should have taken into my lungs
a large
amount of the obnoxious
atmosphere exhaled from
hundreds of other persons in the room, to the
injury of my health,
and no one can give his fellows his best unless his health is hearty.
No wonder we often hear of a host or
hostess being unwell
after a big
function. Their feelings on the morning after
are often the
reverse of "good-will to men", and the cause
is not a lowered moral heartiness but a weakened
physical body
through
breathing too much air exhaled from other people's lungs.
When man understands, he will make "good health" a religious duty.
In
connection with this I quote Dr. J. H. Kellogg,
the
eminentphysician and Superintendent of the Battle Creek Sanitarium.
In his book, "The Living Temple"*, the doctor speaks as follows
on the importance of
breathing pure air: "The purpose of
breathing
is to
obtain from the air a supply of
oxygen, which the blood takes up
and carries to the tissues. Oxygen is one of the most essential
of all the materials required for the support of life. . . .
The
amount of
oxygennecessarily required for this purpose
is about one and one-fourth cubic inches for each
breath. . . .
In place of the one and one-fourth cubic inches of
oxygentaken into the blood, a cubic inch of
carbonic acid gas is given off,
and along with it are thrown off various other still more
poisonous substances
which find a natural exit through the lungs. The
amount of these
combined poisons thrown off with a single
breath is sufficient to contaminate,
and render unfit to
breathe, three cubic feet, or three-fourths of a barrel,
of air. Counting an average of twenty
breaths a minute
for children and adults, the
amount of air contaminated per minute would be
three times twenty or sixty cubic feet, or one cubic foot a second. . . .
Every one should become
intelligent in relation to the matter of ventilation,
and should
appreciate its importance. Vast and irreparable
injuryfrequently results from the
confinement of several scores
or hundreds of people in a
schoolroom, church, or lecture room,
without
adequate means of removing the impurities thrown off
from their lungs and bodies. The same air being
breathed over and over
becomes
densely charged with poisons, which render the blood impure,
lessen the
bodilyresistance, and induce susceptibility to
taking cold,
and to
infection with the germs of
pneumonia, consumption,
and other
infectious diseases, which are always present
in a very
crowdedaudience room. Suppose, for example,
a thousand persons are seated in a room forty feet in width,
sixty in length, and fifteen in
height: how long a time would
elapsebefore the air of such a room would become unfit for further respiration?
Remembering that each person spoils one foot of air every second,
it is clear that one thousand cubic feet of air will be contaminated for
every second that the room is occupied. To
ascertain the number of seconds
which would
elapse before the entire air contained in the room
will be contaminated, so that it is unfit for further
breathing,
we have only to divide the cubic
contents of the room by one thousand.
Multiplying, we have 60*40*15 equals 36,000, the number of cubic feet.
This, divided by one thousand, gives thirty-six as the number of seconds.
Thus it appears that with closed doors and windows,
breath poisoning of the
audience would begin at the end of thirty-six seconds,
or less than one minute. The condition of the air in such a room
at the end of an hour cannot be
adequately pictured in words,
and yet hundreds of
audiences are daily subjected to just
such inhumane
treatment through ignorance."
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