making of a country seat out of a treeless plain by planting the
same with saplings. About the time the trees begin to be worth
having the proprietary landscape-gardener dies of old age. However,
as custom permits a Far Oriental no
ancestral growth of timber,
he is obliged to lay the seeds of his own family trees. Natural
offspring are on the whole easier to get, and more
satisfactory when
got. Hence the haste with which these peoples rush into matrimony.
If in
despite of his precipitation fate perversely refuse to grant
him children, he must endeavor to make good the
omission by
artificial means. He proceeds to adopt somebody. True to instinct,
he chooses from
preference a collateral
relative. In some far-eastern
lands he must so
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restrict himself by law. In Korea, for instance,
he can only adopt an agnate and one of a lower
generation than his own.
But in Japan his choice is not so
limited. In so praise
worthy an
act as the perpetuation of his
unimportant family line, it is deemed
unwise in that
progressive land to
hinder him from unconsciously
bettering it by the way. He is
consequently permitted to adopt
anybody. As people are by no means
averse to being adopted, the
power to adopt whom he will gives him more voice in the matter of
his
unnatural offspring than he ever had in the
selection of a more
natural one.
The adopted changes his name, of course, to take that of the family
he enters. As he is very frequently grown up and
extensively known
at the time the
adoption takes place, his change of cognomen
occasions at first some slight
confusion among his acquaintance.
This would be no worse, however, than the change with us from the
maid to the
matron, and
intercourse would soon proceed smoothly
again if people would only rest content with one such
domesticmigration. But they do not. The fatal
facility of the process
tempts them to repeat it. The result is bewildering: a people as
nomadic now in the property of their persons as their forefathers
were in their real
estate. A man adopts another to-day to unadopt
him to-morrow and
replace him by somebody else the day after.
So
profoundlyunimportant to them is their social
identity, that they
bandy it about with almost farcical freedom. Perhaps it is fitting
that there should be some slight
preparation in this world for a
future transmigration of souls. Still one fails to
conceive that
the practice can be
devoid of disadvantages even to its beneficiaries.
To foreigners it proves disastrously perplexing. For if you chance
upon a man whom you have not met for some time, you can never be
quite sure how to accost him. If you begin, "Well met, Green, how
goes it?" as likely as not he replies, "Finely. But I am no longer
Green; I have become Brown. I was adopted last month by my maternal
grandfather." You of course apologize for your
unfortunate mistake,
carefully note his change of hue for a future occasion, and behold,
on meeting him the next time you find he has turned Black. Such a
chameleon-like cognomen is very unsettling to your idea of his
identity, and can hardly prove reassuring to his own. The only
persons who reap any benefit from the doubt are those, with us
unhappy, individuals who possess the
futilefaculty of remembering
faces without recalling their accompanying names.
Girls, as a rule, are not adopted, being valueless genealogically.
A niece or grandniece to whom one has taken a great fancy might of
course be adopted there as
elsewhere, but it would be
distinctly out
of the every-day run, as she could never be included in the
household on
strict business principles.
The practice of adopting is not confined to childless couples.
Others may find themselves in quite as
unfortunate a predicament.
A man may be the father of a large and thriving family and yet be as
destitute patriarchally as if he had not a child to his name.
His offspring may be of the wrong sex; they may all be girls.
In this untoward event the father has something more on his hands
than merely a houseful of daughters to
dispose of. In
addition to
securing sons-in-law, he must, unless he would have his
ancestralline become
extinct, provide himself with a son. The simplest
procedure in such a case is to
combine relationships in a single
individual, and the most self-evident person to select for the dual
capacity is the husband of the
eldest daughter. This is the course
pursued. Some
worthy young man is secured as
spouse for the senior
sister; he is at the same time
formally taken in as a son by the
family whose cognomen he assumes, and
eventually becomes the head of
the house. Strange to say, this vista of gradually unfolding honors
does not seem to prove
inviting. Perhaps the new-comer objects to
marrying the whole family, a
prejudice not without parallel
elsewhere. Certainly the opportunity is not
appreciated. Indeed,
to "go out as a son-in-law," as the Japanese idiom hath it, is
considered demeaning to the matrimonial
domestic. Like other
household help he wears too patently the badge of servitude.
"If you have three koku of rice to your name, don't do it," is the
advice of the local
proverb--a
proverb whose
warning against
marrying for money is the more
suggestive for being launched in a
land where marrying for love is beyond the pale of respectability.
To
barter one's name in this
mercenary manner is looked upon as
derogatory to one's self-respect, although, as we have seen, to part
with it for any less direct remuneration is not attended with the
slightest loss of personal
prestige. As practically the
unfortunatehad none to lose in either event, it would seem to be a case of
taking away from a man that which he hath not. So contumacious a
thing is custom. It is indeed lucky that popular
prejudiceinterposes some limit to this fictitious method of acquiring
children. A
trifling predilection for the real thing in sonships is
absolutely vital, even to the
continuance of the
artificial variety.
For if one
generation ever went in
exclusively for
adoption, there
would be no
subsequentgeneration to adopt.
As it to give the finishing touch to so
conventional a
system of
society, a man can leave it under certain circumstances with even
greater ease than he entered it. He can become as good as dead
without the necessity of making way with himself. Theoretically, he
can cease to live while still practically existing; for it is always
open to the head of a family to abdicate.
The word abdicate has to our ears a certain regal sound.
We
instinctivelyassociate the act with a king. Even the more
democratic expression
resign suggests at once an office of public or
quasi public
character. To talk of abdicating one's private
relationships sounds
absurd; one might as well talk of electing his
parents, it would seem to us. Such
misunderstanding of far-eastern
social possibilities comes from our having indulged in digressions
from our more simple nomadic habits. If in
imagination we will
return to our
ancestral muttons and the then existing order of
things, the idea will not strike us as so strange; for in those
early bucolic days every father was a king. Family
economics were
the only
political questions in
existence then. The clan was the
unit. Domestic disputes were state disturbances, and clan-claims
the only kind of
international quarrels. The patriarch was both
father to his people and king.
As time widened the family
circle it
eventually reached a point
where cohesion ceased to be possible. The centrifugal tendency
could no longer be controlled by the centripetal force. It split up
into separate bodies, each of them a family by itself. In their
turn these again divided, and so the process went on. This
principle has worked
universally, the only difference in its action
among different races being the greater or less degree of the
evolving
motion. With us the social
system has been turning more
and more rapidly with time. In the Far East its force, instead of
increasing, would seem to have decreased, enabling the
nebula of its
original condition to keep together as a single mass, so that to-day
a whole nation, resembling a
nebula indeed in homogeneity, is swayed
by a single patriarchal principle. Here, on the
contrary, so rapid
has the
motion become that even brethren find themselves scattered
to the four winds.
An Occidental father and an Oriental head of a family are no longer
really cor
relative terms. The latter more closely resembles a king
in his duties, responsibilities, and functions generally. Now, in
the Middle Ages in Europe, when a king grew tired of affairs of
state, he abdicated. So in the Far East, when the head of a family
has had enough of active life, he abdicates, and his
eldest son
reigns in his stead.
From that moment he ceases to belong to the body
politic in any
active sense. Not that he is no longer a member of society nor