highest point of
intellectual" target="_blank" title="n.知识分子">
intellectual growth and
mental virility has been reached
by the human
female, that her relation with her male offspring becomes a
permanent and active and
dominantfactor in the lives of both. The
concentrated and all-absorbing
affection" target="_blank" title="n.友爱;慈爱">
affection and
fellowship which existed
between the greatest
femaleintellect France has produced and the son she
bore, dominating both lives to the end, the
fellowship of the English
historian with his mother, who remained his chosen
companion and the sharer
of all his labours through life, the relation of St. Augustine to his
mother, and those of
countless others, are relations almost inconceivable
where the woman is not of commanding and active
intelligence, and where the
passion of mere
physicalinstinct is completed by the
passion of the
intellect and spirit.
There appears, then, from the study of human nature in the past, no ground
for supposing that if, as a result of woman's adopting new forms of labour,
she should become more free, more
wealthy" target="_blank" title="a.富有的;丰富的">
wealthy, or more
activelyintelligent,
that this could in any way
diminish her need of the
physical and
mentalcomradeship of man, nor his need of her; nor that it would
affect their
secondary
sexual relations as progenitors, save by deepening,
concentrating, and extending throughout life the parental
emotions. The
conception that man's and woman's need of each other could be touched, or
the
emotions
binding the sexes obliterated, by any mere change in the form
of labour performed by the woman of the race, is as
grotesque in its
impossibility, as the
suggestion that the placing of a shell on the
seashore this way or that might destroy the action of the earth's great
tidal wave.
But, it may be objected, "If there be
absolutely no ground for the
formation of such an opinion, how comes it that, in one form or another, it
is so often expressed by persons who object to the entrance of woman into
new or
intellectual" target="_blank" title="n.知识分子">
intellectual fields of labour? Where there is smoke must there not
also be fire?" To which it must be replied, "Without fire, no smoke; but
very often the appearance of smoke where neither smoke nor fire exist!"
The fact that a statement is frequently made or a view held forms no
presumptive ground of its truth; but it is
undoubtedly a ground for
supposing that there is an appearance or
semblance which makes it appear
truth, and which suggests it. The
universally entertained
conception that
the sun moved round the world was not merely false, but the
reverse of the
truth; all that was required for its inception was a fallacious appearance
suggesting it.
When we examine
narrowly the statement, that the entrance of woman into the
new fields of labour, with its probably resulting greater freedom of
action, economic
independence and wider
culture, may result in a severance
between the sexes, it becomes clear what that fallacious appearance is,
which suggests this.
The entrance of a woman into new fields of labour, though bringing her
increased freedom and economic
independence, and necessitating increased
mental training and wider knowledge, could not
extinguish the primordial
physicalinstinct which draws sex to sex throughout all the orders of
sentient life; and still less could it
annihilate that subtler
mental need,
which, as
humanity develops, draws sex to sex for
emotional" target="_blank" title="a.易动感情的;情感的">
emotionalfellowship and
close
intercourse; but, it might, and
undoubtedly would, powerfully react
and readjust the relations of certain men with certain women!
While the
attraction,
physical and
intellectual" target="_blank" title="n.知识分子">
intellectual, which binds sex to sex
would remain the same in
volume and
intensity, the forms in which it would
express itself, and, above all, the
relative power of individuals to
command the
gratification of their
instincts and desires, would be
funda
mentally altered, and in many cases inverted.
In the
barbarian state of societies, where
physical force
dominates, it is
the most
muscular and pugilistically and brutally and animally successful
male who
captures and possesses the largest number of
females; and no doubt
he would be justified in
regarding any social change which gave to woman a
larger freedom of choice, and which would so perhaps give to the less
brutal but perhaps more
intelligent male, whom the woman might select, an
equal opportunity for the
gratification of his
sexual wishes and for the
producing of offspring, as a serious loss. And, from the
purely personal
standpoint, he would
undoubtedly be right in dreading anything which tended
to free woman. But he would
manifestly not have been justified in
asserting, that woman's increased freedom of choice, or the fact that the
other men would share his
advantage in the matter of obtaining
femalecompanionship, would in any way
lessen the
amount of
sexualemotion or the
tenderness of relation between the two halves of
humanity. He would not by
brute force possess himself of so many
females, nor have so large a circle
of choice, under the new conditions; but what he lost, others would gain;
and the
intensity of the sex
emotions and the nearness and
passion of the
relation between the sexes be in no way touched.
In our more civilised societies, as they exist today, woman possesses (more
often perhaps in appearance than reality!) a somewhat greater freedom of
sexualselection; she is no longer
captured by
muscular force, but there
are still conditions entirely unconnected with sex
attractions and
affection" target="_blank" title="n.友爱;慈爱">
affections, which yet largely
dominate the sex relations.
It is not the man of the strong arm, but the man of the long purse, who
unduly and
artificiallydominates in the
sexual world today. Practically,
wherever in the modern world woman is
wholly or
partiallydependent for her
means of support on the exercise of her
sexualfunctions, she is
dependentmore or less on the male's power to support her in their exercise, and her
freedom of choice is practically so far
absolutelylimited. Probably
three-fourths of the
sexual unions in our modern European societies,
whether in the
illegal or recognised legal forms, are
dominated by or
largely influenced by the sex purchasing power of the male. With regard to
the large and
savageinstitution of prostitution, which still lies as the
cancer embedded in the heart of all our modern civilised societies, this is
obviously and nakedly the case; the
wealth of the male as compared to the
female being, with
hideous obtrusiveness, its
foundation and source of
life. But the purchasing power of the male as compared with the
poverty of
the
female is not less
painfully, if a little less obtrusively, displayed
in those layers of society lying nearer the surface. From the fair, effete
young girl of the
wealthier classes in her city boudoir, who weeps
copiously as she tells you she cannot marry the man she loves, because he
says he has only two hundred a year and cannot afford to keep her; to the
father who demands
frankly of his daughter's
suitor how much he can settle
on her before consenting to his
acceptance, the fact remains, that, under
existing conditions, not the
amount of sex
affection" target="_blank" title="n.友爱;慈爱">
affection,
passion, and
attraction, but the extraneous question of the material possessions of the
male, determines to a large
extent the relation of the sexes. The
parasitic,
helpless youth who has failed in his studies, who possesses
neither virility, nor charm of person, nor strength of mind, but who
possesses
wealth, has a far greater chance of securing un
limitedsexualindulgence and the life
companionship of the fairest maid, than her
brother's tutor, who may be possessed of every manly and
physical grace and
mental gift; and the ancient libertine, possessed of nothing but material
good, has, especially among the
so-called upper classes of our societies, a
far greater chance of securing the sex
companionship of any woman he
desires as wife,
mistress, or prostitute, than the most
physically
attractive and
mentally developed male, who may have nothing to offer to
the
dependentfemale but
affection" target="_blank" title="n.友爱;慈爱">
affection and
sexualcompanionship.
To the male,
whenever and
wherever he exists in our societies, who depends
mainly for his power for procuring the sex relation he desires, not on his
power of
winning and retaining personal
affection" target="_blank" title="n.友爱;慈爱">
affection, but, on the purchasing
power of his possessions as compared to the
poverty of the
females of his
society, the personal loss would be
seriously and at once felt, of any
social change which gave to the woman a larger economic
independence and
therefore greater freedom of
sexual choice. It is not an
imaginary danger
which the young dude, of a certain type which sits often in the front row
of the stalls in a theatre, with sloping
forehead and
feeble jaw, watching
the
unhappy women who dance for gold--sees looming before him, as he lisps
out his deep
disapproval of increased knowledge and the freedom of
obtaining the means of
subsistence in
intellectual" target="_blank" title="n.知识分子">
intellectual fields by woman, and
expresses his vast
preference for the un
cultured ballet-girl over all types
of
cultured and
productive labouring womenhood in the
universe. A subtle
and
profoundinstinct warns him, that with the increased
intelligence and
economic freedom of woman, he, and such as he, might
ultimately be left
sexually
companionless; the
undesirable, the residuary, male old-maids of
the human race.
On the other hand, there is
undoubtedly a certain body of
females who would
lose, or imagine they would lose, heavily by the advance of woman as a
whole to a condition of free labour and economic
independence. That
female, wilfully or organically belonging to the
parasite class, having
neither the
vigour of
intellect nor the
vitality of body to
undertake any
form of
productive labour, and desiring to be
dependent only upon the
passive
performance of sex
function merely, would, whether as prostitute or
wife,
undoubtedly lose heavily by any social change which demanded of woman
increased knowledge and activity. (She would lose in two directions: by
the social disapprobation which, as the new conditions became general,