How to Tell Someone You Like Him or Her

The advise I'm about to give is both concise and easy to follow. Some of you may find this advise unorthodox, and that is your opinion. First hand, I will admit, that this should only work for teenagers.

To start things off, it is very simple;Men are just as diverse as women.

Don't believe all that hype about how they don't have a time of the month either. If you study a man or woman carefully enough, there is always a time in which they are going to cranky during the month. Let this person have his or her space for that week before even considering telling the person you like him or her.

If your seriously interested in a person, then you should wait until a time that isn't during school or work to tell them so. I say this because it shows an actual interest in the person that isn't to the point of stocking. Please, try not to stalk people. It's not helpful and you can end up with a restraining order.

Don't forget one thing either; INTERESTS! If you like someone because he or she is "cute", then it's probably not worth it to ask a person out biased on this assumption.

My personal favorite thing to do before I met the love of my life, was to simply start a convesation with this person and get to know the person for anywhere from a few days to a few weeks before even considering asking the person out on a "real" date.

This brings me to another good point. You should probably at least try to become friends with the person before trying to become his or her girlfriend or boyfriend. Most of the time, friends all go out and do things together. This should give you an idea of the people your crush hangs out with and all of your similar interests.

Whatever you do, please don't fake being interested in the same things. It gets annoying and people do like a few things to be the same but not every little thing. I can almost guarantee there's at least one interest you share and that's all you need.

If the person doesn't want to take the time to be your friend then there's a good chance he or she wouldn't want to be your girlfriend/boyfriend either.

Well, after you've hung out with this person a while, just ask him or her out. If you two have connected, then it should be easy. If not, you've made a wonderful new friend whom can help you find that someone.

我所给的建议很简洁,也很容易做到。有些人会认为我的建议不够正统,各有各的看法嘛。首先,我得承认,这个建议只对青少年有效。

开始的时候需要做的事情非常简单。男人和女人一样多变。

也不要相信他们所说的整个月都没有时间之类的话。如果你认真地研究过一个男人或女人,会发现,每个月都有一段时间,他们会胡思乱想。甚至在你考虑向他或她表白之前,让他或她在那个星期,留有自己的空间吧。

如果你对一个人很感兴趣,那么等到课余时间或下班时间再告诉他或她你的感觉。我这么说是因为这表现出你是真的喜欢他或她,不是隐秘的喜欢。请不要试图悄悄接近某人。这对你并无益处,你可能会被拒绝。

同样不要忘记另一件事:兴趣。如果你喜欢一个人是因为他或她很可爱,那么,凭借对这一假设的偏见就出去约会似乎不太值得。

在我遇到一生挚爱之前,我个人最喜欢做的事就是和那个人开始交流,连着几天或几周渐渐了解他的每个方面。然后再考虑和他真正地约会。

这给我带来另一个好处。在做他或她做男女朋友之前,你至少应该先和他做朋友。大多数时候,朋友们会一块出去并且一起做事。这会让你了解你喜欢的对象周围的人是什么样的,还有你们有哪些共同的爱好。

无论你做什么,请不要假装喜欢同样的东西。这会令人讨厌,人们确实喜欢有一些相同的爱好但并不希望每件事都一样。我敢保证,你们至少有一个共同的兴趣,那正是你所需要的。

如果那个人不想浪费时间和你做朋友,那么很可能他或她也不想成为你的男朋友或女朋友。

在你和那个人出去过几次之后,再和他真正地约会。如果你们有了默契,那么就很容易了。如果没有,那么你交了一个新朋友,他或她会帮你找到那个对的人。
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