I've read a book written by Bi Shumin, an estimable writer. The book is "the females I like". After reading her book, I am calmed down from the depressing thought that things are always awful. It seems that I've got a different attitude towards everyone and everything. I learn a lot from her articles, I get to know how to be an excellent female. And I am going to share with you what I have got from Ms Bi.
To be an excellent woman, first of all, is to be
virtuous. You may have the intuition that women are always kind-hearted. However, I regret to tell you that you may get something wrong. What is difficult for a female to be
virtuous is that she has to keep herself kind after all the miserable things she has
experienced. Just look at those nit-pick ladies, or the bitches. The
humiliation a female has to meet is tougher than you can imagine. On the contrary, a
virtuous female to her surroundings is like the alum to the dirty water. Hopes and goodness still exist.
Second, an excellent woman should be clever. Wisdom can be a corselet for a woman. Only after she can protect herself that she can protect those who she wants to protect. Frankly
speaking, what she gets is not wisdom but petty tricks. They are easily drown in the sweet words and the appearance. Hereby, experience and
insight are necessary.
And third, an excellent woman must have courage. I think this is going to be important to every female. She has to be able to go through a dark, deep path, crooning by herself. And she is supposed to have the courage to give up something. Do not search for a
tattered hut to get rid of the storm. Yes, if she is an excellent woman,
whichever direction she is heading, she will encounter an excellent gentleman. Be brave to move on.
And last but not least, an excellent woman should be beautiful. Surely, what beauty means depends on everyone's opinion. This
characteristic should remain whenever she is young or old. A beautiful female is charming for her soul which leads to
sanctity. One of the unvarying cosmetic that makes her charming is
temperament. Time and tide can witness this.
Shouldn't a woman be a beauty to the world? Shouldn't a woman fall in love with
excellence? Shouldn't a woman be an art?
So try to be an excellent female, to perfect ourselves, to make the world beautiful.
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