the head of the family, he cannot
consistently consider himself.
There is
absolutely no place in his social cosmos for so particular
a thing as the ego.
With a certain grim humor
suggestive of metaphysics, it may be said
of his whole life that it is nothing but a
relative affair after
all.
Chapter 3. Adoption.
But one may go a step farther in this matter of the family, and by
so doing fare still worse with respect to
individuality. There are
certain customs in vogue among these peoples which would seem to
indicate that even so generic a thing as the family is too personal
to serve them for
ultimate social atom, and that in fact it is only
the idea of the family that is really important, a case of
abstraction of an
abstract. These
suggestive customs are the
far-eastern practices of
adoption and abdication.
Adoption, with us, is a kind of
domesticluxury, akin to the keeping
of any other pets, such as lap-dogs and canaries. It is a
speciesof self-indulgence which those who can afford it give themselves
when fortune has proved unpropitious, an
artificial method of
counteracting the inequalities of fate. That such is the plain
unglamoured view of the
procedure is shown by the age at which the
object is adopted. Usually the future son or daughter enters the
adoptive household as an
infant, intentionally so on the part of the
would-be parents. His
ignorance of a
previousrelationship largely
increases his
relative value; for the
possibility of his making
comparisons in his own mind between a former state of
existence and
the present one unfavorable to the latter is not pleasant for the
adopters to
contemplate. He is
therefore acquired young. The
amusement derived from his company is thus seen to be distinctly
paramount to all other considerations. No one cares so
heartily to
own a dog which has been the property of another; a fortiori of a
child. It is clearly, then, not as a necessity that the babe is
adopted. If such were the case, if like the ancient Romans all a
man wanted was the
continuance of the family line, he would
naturally wait until the last
practicable moment; for he would thus
save both care and expense. In the Far East
adoption is quite a
different affair. There it is a genealogical necessity--like having
a father or mother. It is, indeed, of almost more importance.
For the great desideratum to these peoples is not ancestors but
descendants. Pedigrees in the land of the
universal opposite are not
matters of bequest but of posthumous reversion. A man is not
beholden to the past, he looks forward to the future for inherited
honors. No fame attaches to him for having had an
illustriousgrandfather. On the
contrary, it is the
illustriousgrandson who
reflects some of his own
greatness back upon his
grandfather. If a
man
therefore fail to
attaineminence himself, he always has another
chance in his descendants; for he will of necessity be ennobled
through the merits of those who succeed him. Such is the immemorial
law of the land. Fame is retroactive. This
admirablesystem has
only one
objection: it is posthumous in its effect. An ambitious
man who un
fortunately lacks
ability himself has to wait too long for
vicarious
recognition. The
objection is like that
incident to the
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