breathe to any one before, find a tongue for her who seems
fore-destined to understand. The long-closed floodgates of feeling
are thrown wide, and our
personality, pent up from the time of its
inception for very
mistrust, sweeps forth in one uncontrollable
rush. For then the most reticent becomes confiding; the most
self-contained expands. Then every detail of our past lives assumes
an importance which even we had not divined. To her we tell them
all,--our
boyish beliefs, our
youthful fancies, the foolish with
the fine, the witty with the wise, the little with the great.
Nothing then seems quite un
worthy, as nothing seems quite
worthyenough. Flowers and weeds that we plucked upon our
pathway, we heap
them in her lap, certain that even the poorest will not be tossed
aside. Small wonder that we bring as many as we may when she bends
her head so
lovingly to each.
As our past rises in reminiscence with all its oldtime
reality, no
less clearly does our future stand out to us in mirage. What we
would be seems as realizable as what we were. Seen by another
beside ourselves, our castles in the air take on something of the
substance of stereoscopic sight. Our airiest fancies seem solid
facts for their
reality to her, and gilded by lovelight, they
glitter and
sparkle like a true palace of the East. For once all is
possible; nothing lies beyond our reach. And as we talk, and she
listens, we two seem to be floating off into an empyrean of our own
like the summer clouds above our heads, as they sail dreamily on
into the far-away depths of the unfathomable sky.
It would be more than
mortal not to believe in ourselves when
another believes so
absolutely in us. Our most secret thoughts are
no longer things to be
ashamed of, for she has sanctioned them.
Whatever doubt may have shadowed us as to our own imaginings
disappears before the smile of her
appreciation. That her
appreciation may be prejudiced is not a
possibility we think of
then. She understands us, or seems to do so to our own better
understanding of ourselves. Happy the man who is thus understood!
Happy even he who imagines that he is, because of her eager wish to
comprehend;
fortunate, indeed, if in this one respect he never comes
to see too clearly.
No such blissful infatuation falls to the lot of the Far Oriental.
He never is the dupe of his own desire, the
willingvictim of his
self-illusion. He is never tempted to reveal himself, and by thus
revealing, realize. No
lovingappreciation urges him on toward the
attainment of his own ideal. That incitement to be what he would
seem to be, to become what she deems becoming, he fails to feel.
Custom has so far fettered fancy that even the wish to communicate
has vanished. He has now nothing to tell; she needs no ear to hear.
For she is not his love; she is only his wife,--what is left of a
romance when the
romance is left out. Worse still, she never was
anything else. He has not so much as a memory of her, for he did
not marry her for love; he may not love of his own
accord, nor for
the matter of that does he wish to do so. If by some mischance he
should so far forget to forget himself, it were much better for him
had he not done so, for the choice of a bride is not his, nor of a
bridegroom hers. Marriage to a Far Oriental is the most important
mercantile transaction of his whole life. It is,
therefore, far too
weighty a matter to be entrusted to his
youthful indiscretion; for
although the person herself is of lamentably little
account in the
bargain, the
character of her
worldly circumstances is most material
to it. So she is
contracted for with the same care one would
exercise in the choice of any
staple business commodity.
The particular
sample is not vital to the trade, but the grade of
goods is. She is selected much as the bride of the Vicar of Wakefield
chose her wedding-gown, only that the one was at least cut to suit,
while the other is not. It is certainly easier, if less fitting,
to get a wife as some people do clothes, not to their own order,
- instructive [in´strʌktiv] a.有益的 (初中英语单词)
- supreme [su:´pri:m, sju:-] a.最高的,无上的 (初中英语单词)
- virtue [´və:tʃu:] n.美德;贞操;长处 (初中英语单词)
- youthful [´ju:θfəl] a.年轻的;青年的 (初中英语单词)
- competition [,kɔmpi´tiʃən] n.比赛;竞争 (初中英语单词)
- admiration [,ædmə´reiʃən] n.赞赏,钦佩 (初中英语单词)
- extreme [ik´stri:m] a.尽头的 n.极端 (初中英语单词)
- wooden [´wudn] a.木制的;呆板的 (初中英语单词)
- actually [´æktʃuəli] ad.事实上;实际上 (初中英语单词)
- procure [prə´kjuə] v.获得;完(达)成;实现 (初中英语单词)
- worthy [´wə:ði] a.有价值的;值得的 (初中英语单词)
- system [´sistəm] n.系统,体系,制度 (初中英语单词)
- amount [ə´maunt] n.总数;数量 v.合计 (初中英语单词)
- reading [´ri:diŋ] n.(阅)读;朗读;读物 (初中英语单词)
- undertake [,ʌndə´teik] vt.从事;承担;担保 (初中英语单词)
- occupation [,ɔkju´peiʃən] a.职业的;军事占领的 (初中英语单词)
- therefore [´ðeəfɔ:] ad.&conj.因此;所以 (初中英语单词)
- possibility [,pɔsə´biliti] n.可能(性);希望;前途 (初中英语单词)
- accumulate [ə´kju:mjuleit] n.积累;积聚;堆积 (初中英语单词)
- sufficiently [sə´fiʃəntli] ad.充分地,足够地 (初中英语单词)
- tendency [´tendənsi] n.趋势;倾向 (初中英语单词)
- swallow [swɔləu] n.燕子 v.吞,咽;淹没 (初中英语单词)
- evident [´evidənt] a.明显的,明白的 (初中英语单词)
- patent [´peitənt, ´pæ-] a.专利的 n.专利品 (初中英语单词)
- introduction [,intrə´dʌkʃən] n.介绍;引言;引导 (初中英语单词)
- learning [´lə:niŋ] n.学习;学问;知识 (初中英语单词)
- application [,æpli´keiʃən] n.申请;申请书;应用 (初中英语单词)
- perceive [pə´si:v] vt.察觉;看出;领悟 (初中英语单词)
- utmost [´ʌtməust] a.最大的 n.极端 (初中英语单词)
- series [´siəri:z] n.连续;系列;丛书 (初中英语单词)
- enthusiasm [in´θju:ziæzəm] n.热心;狂热;爱好 (初中英语单词)
- philosophy [fi´lɔsəfi] n.哲学;人生观 (初中英语单词)
- paradise [´pærədais] n.天堂;乐园 (初中英语单词)
- amateur [´æmətə, ,æmə´tə:] n.业余爱好者 (初中英语单词)
- diligent [´dilidʒənt] a.勤奋的 (初中英语单词)
- arrest [ə´rest] vt.逮捕 n.逮捕;停止 (初中英语单词)
- dramatic [drə´mætik] a.戏剧的;戏剧般的 (初中英语单词)
- useless [´ju:sləs] a.无用的,无价值的 (初中英语单词)
- victim [´viktim] n.牺牲者;受害者 (初中英语单词)
- purely [´pjuəli] ad.仅仅;简单地 (初中英语单词)
- immense [i´mens] a.广大的,无限的 (初中英语单词)
- consequence [´kɔnsikwəns] n.结果;后果;推断 (初中英语单词)
- character [´kæriktə] n.特性;性质;人物;字 (初中英语单词)
- personality [,pə:sə´næliti] n.人;个性;人品;人物 (初中英语单词)
- reality [ri´æliti] n.现实(性);真实;逼真 (初中英语单词)
- sparkle [´spɑ:kəl] vi.闪耀;焕发 n.火花 (初中英语单词)
- absolutely [´æbsəlu:tli] ad.绝对地;确实 (初中英语单词)
- ashamed [ə´ʃeimd] a.惭愧;不好意思 (初中英语单词)
- fortunate [´fɔ:tʃənət] a.幸运的,侥幸的 (初中英语单词)
- willing [´wiliŋ] a.情愿的,乐意的 (初中英语单词)
- romance [rəu´mæns] n.中世纪骑士小说 (初中英语单词)
- accord [ə´kɔ:d] n.&vi.符合 vt.给与 (初中英语单词)
- account [ə´kaunt] vi.说明 vt.认为 n.帐目 (初中英语单词)
- sample [´sæmpl, ´sɑ:mpəl] n.样品;试样 vt.尝试 (初中英语单词)
- specimen [´spesimən] n.标本,样品;抽样 (高中英语单词)
- posterity [pɔ´steriti] n.子孙;后代 (高中英语单词)
- competent [´kɔmpitənt] a.能干的,有资格的 (高中英语单词)
- inheritance [in´heritəns] n.继承(物);遗传;遗产 (高中英语单词)
- technical [´teknikəl] a.技术的;专门性的 (高中英语单词)
- literally [´litərəli] ad.逐字地;实际上 (高中英语单词)
- typical [´tipikəl] a.典型的;象征的 (高中英语单词)
- dependent [di´pendənt] a.依赖的;从属的 (高中英语单词)
- solely [´səulli] ad.唯一;单独;完全 (高中英语单词)
- fatigue [fə´ti:g] n.&vt.(使)疲劳(劳累) (高中英语单词)
- earthly [´ə:θli] a.地球的;世俗的 (高中英语单词)
- forthwith [fɔ:θ´wið] ad.立刻 (高中英语单词)
- thankful [´θæŋkfəl] a.感激的;欣慰的 (高中英语单词)
- community [kə´mju:niti] n.团体;社区;公众 (高中英语单词)
- reckless [´rekləs] a.不注意的;鲁莽的 (高中英语单词)
- jewish [´dʒu:iʃ] a.犹太人(似)的 (高中英语单词)
- comprehension [,kɔmpri´henʃən] n.理解;领悟 (高中英语单词)
- mortal [´mɔ:tl] a.致命的 n.凡人 (高中英语单词)
- appreciation [ə,pri:ʃi´eiʃən] n.评价;感激 (高中英语单词)
- loving [´lʌviŋ] a.爱的,有爱情的 (高中英语单词)
- oriental [ɔ:ri´entl] a.东方人的 (高中英语单词)
- instinctively [in´stiŋktivli] ad.本能地 (英语四级单词)
- noticeable [´nəutisəbəl] a.显著的;值得注意的 (英语四级单词)
- superiority [su:piəri´ɔriti, sju:-] n.优越,卓越 (英语四级单词)
- abstract [´æbstrækt] a.抽象的 n.提要 (英语四级单词)
- artisan [,ɑ:ti´zæn] n.手艺人;技工 (英语四级单词)
- reputation [repju´teiʃən] n.名誉;名声;信誉 (英语四级单词)
- competitive [kəm´petitiv] a.竞争的,比赛的 (英语四级单词)
- eventually [i´ventʃuəli] ad.最后,终于 (英语四级单词)
- outcome [´autkʌm] n.结果;后果;成果 (英语四级单词)
- accomplished [ə´kʌmpliʃt] a.完成了的;熟练的 (英语四级单词)
- unlimited [ʌn´limitid] a.无限的;过渡的 (英语四级单词)
- indulgence [in´dʌldʒəns] n.沉迷;宽容;恩惠 (英语四级单词)
- assuredly [ə´ʃuəridli] ad.确实地;确信地 (英语四级单词)
- conventional [kən´venʃənəl] a.常规的;协定的 (英语四级单词)
- boyish [´bɔiiʃ] a.少年的;幼稚的 (英语四级单词)
- unworthy [ʌn´wə:ði] a.不值得的;不足道的 (英语四级单词)
- pathway [´pɑ:θwei] n.小路 (英语四级单词)
- worldly [´wə:ldli] a.现世的;世俗的 (英语四级单词)
- staple [´steipəl] n.&vt.(用)钉书钉 (英语四级单词)
- filial [´filiəl] a.子女的;孝顺的 (英语六级单词)
- questionable [´kwestʃənəbəl] a.可疑的,不可靠的 (英语六级单词)
- paternal [pə´tə:nl] a.(象)父亲的;父方的 (英语六级单词)
- fitness [fitnis] n.适合;健康 (英语六级单词)
- applied [ə´plaid] a.实用的,应用的 (英语六级单词)
- disagree [,disə´gri:] vi.不同意 (英语六级单词)
- impersonal [im´pə:sənəl] a.不受个人感情影响的 (英语六级单词)
- wanting [´wɔntiŋ, wɑ:n-] a.短缺的;不足的 (英语六级单词)
- incidental [,insi´dentəl] a.伴随的;易发生的 (英语六级单词)
- individuality [,individʒu´æləti] n.个性;特征 (英语六级单词)
- judicious [dʒu:´diʃəs] a.明智的;贤明的 (英语六级单词)
- mistrust [mis´trʌst] v.&n.不信任;怀疑 (英语六级单词)
- contracted [kən´træktid] a.收缩了的;缩略的 (英语六级单词)