"After an instant's
hesitation she turned to a
eunuch and said:
" 'We cannot give her one bowl [the Chinese custom being always
to give things in pairs]; go and prepare her two.'
"Then, turning to her guests, she continued apologetically:
" 'I should be glad to give bowls to each of you, but the Foreign
Office has requested me not to give presents at this
audience.'
It had been her custom to give each of her guests some small gift
with her own hands and afterwards to send presents by her
eunuchs
to their homes.
"On another occasion the lady referred to above took an ornament
from a
cabinet and was carrying it away when the person in charge
of these things requested that it be restored,
saying that she
was
responsible for everything in the room and would be punished
if anything were missing.
"The above
incidents do not stand alone. It was not
uncommon for
some of the Continental guests, in the presence of the court
ladies, to make uncomplimentary remarks about the food, which was
Chinese, and often not very palatable to the
foreigner. These
remarks, of course, were not
supposed to be understood, though
the Empress Dowager always had her own
interpreter at table. One
often felt that some of these ladies, in their efforts to see all
and get all, forgot what was due their own country as well as
their
imperialhostess.
"One can understand the enormity of such an
offense in a court
the
etiquette of which is so
exacting that none of her own
subjects ever dared appear in her presence until they had been
properly instructed in court
etiquette in the 'Board of Rites,' a
course of
instruction which may extend over a period of from a
week to six months. These breaches of
politeness on the part of
these foreign ladies may have been overlooked by Her Majesty and
the
princesses, but, if so, it was on the old
belief that all
outside of China were barbarians.
"All the ladies who attended these
audiences, however, were not
of this
character. There were those who realized the importance
of those occasions in the
opening up of China, and were
scrupulous in their efforts to
conform to the most
exactingcustoms of the court. And who can doubt that the warm friendship
which the Empress Dowager conceived for Mrs. Conger, the wife of
our American
minister, who did more than any other person ever
did, or ever can do, towards the
opening up of the Chinese court
to the people of the West, was because of her
appreciation of the
fact that Mrs. Conger was
anxious to show the Empress Dowager the
honour due to her position.
"It was in her private
audiences that this great woman's tact,
womanliness,
fascination and charm as a
hostess appeared. Taking
her guest by the hand, she would ask in the most solicitous way
whether we were not tired with our journey to the palace; she
would
deplore the heat in summer or the cold in winter; she would
express her
anxiety lest the refreshments might not have been to
our taste; she would tell us in the sincerest accents that it was
a propitious fate that had made our paths meet; and she would
charm each of her guests, even though they had been
formerlyprejudiced against her, with little separate attentions, which
exhibited her complete power as a
hostess.
"When opportunity offered, she was always
anxious to learn of
foreign ways and institutions. On one occasion while in the
theatre, she called me to her side, and, giving me a chair,
inquired at length into the
system of
female education in
America.
" 'I have heard,' she said, 'that in your
honourable country all
the girls are taught to read.'
" 'Quite so, Your Majesty.'
" 'And are they taught the same branches of study as the boys?'
" 'In the public schools they are.'
" 'I wish very much that the girls in China might also be taught,
but the people have great difficulty in educating their boys.'
"I then explained in a few words our public-school
system, to
which she replied:
" 'The taxes in China are so heavy at present that it would be
impossible to add another expense such as this would be.'
"It was not long
thereafter, however, before an edict was issued
commending
female education, and at the present time hundreds of
girls' schools have been established by private persons both in
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- banquet [´bæŋkwit] n.宴会,盛宴 (高中英语单词)
- uncomfortable [ʌn´kʌmftəbəl] a.不舒服的,不自在的 (高中英语单词)
- presume [pri´zju:m] v.假定;推测;以为 (高中英语单词)
- gorgeous [´gɔ:dʒəs] a.华丽的;宜人的 (高中英语单词)
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- throne [θrəun] n.宝座;王位 (高中英语单词)
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- hesitation [,hezi´teiʃən] n.犹豫,踌躇 (高中英语单词)
- saying [´seiŋ, ´sei-iŋ] n.言语;言论;格言 (高中英语单词)
- continental [,kɔnti´nentl] a.大陆的,大陆性的 (高中英语单词)
- appreciation [ə,pri:ʃi´eiʃən] n.评价;感激 (高中英语单词)
- hostess [´həustis] n.女主人;旅馆女老板 (高中英语单词)
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- defective [di´fektiv] a.有缺陷的;有瑕疵的 (英语四级单词)
- diplomatic [,diplə´mætik] a.外交的 (英语四级单词)
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- uncommon [ʌn´kɔmən] a.非常的,非凡的,罕见的 (英语四级单词)
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