Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law always seem to be a natural pair of antagonists that are hard to
reconcile. To those young newly-wed sisters, what is attendant with the
sweetness and happiness is the unavoidable problem of how to properly handle the relation with your husband's mother.
Although I have had quite many contacts with mother-in-law before marriage, and also
learned well that she is a kindhearted,
amiable "neighbor auntie"; an "childish veteran" still remaining a childish heart and
holding a
loving heart; and an
intellectual woman
ardent for life and enthusiasm for reading and writing. And although I feel so lucky that my "future mother-in-law " is not at all the "ferocious devils" picture of
typical mother-in-law, after all it is different from living closely
everyday, I still feel worried about that.
Not until now when we finally and
officially become members of one family, do I realize that all my worries are unnecessary. On the wedding day, hardly did I stepped into the door of husband's home than mother-in-law caught hold of my hands, highly praising that I was the most beautiful bride in the world,
saying that form then on her son would be handed over to me to discipline, and something like that, you can easily sense her excitement and joy pouring out; On
seeing that I just wore a light wedding yarn, she immediately ordered me to put on my jacket for fear that I would catch a cold for the cold weather, unintentionally expressing her deeply concerns and
dearly love to me. A warm feeling gushed out from the inside of my heart . at the very moment she held my hands, all the sorrows and dejections I felt when I parted from my mum are all melt by her fervidity.
(To be continued)
PS:
This is a
translation of my
solicit article (written in Chinese ) which I wrote in post "Relation between mother-and-daughter-in-law" (母婴话题之"婆媳关系") it's too long to
translate it at one time. Plz give some
encouragement if you like it, or I may not stick on.
Sincerely expect any comment and any correction^_^
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http://babyclub.women.sohu.com/read-mom_daugh-652542-0-5.html
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