the love faded away,
the oath being swayed;
to betray or to obey?
to leave or to stay?
The distress haunted some friends with their only couples of years' marriage. how to get rid of the seven-year-itch?maybe the following suggestions I found in a Chinese website could give them hints.
A series of strategies to a successful marriage is what a precise timetable to a never off-the-trail train. For those husband already, specific plans is inevitable----for living a better and more valuable life inspite of waiting for it's approaching.
The first year :to enjoy the happiness
The second year:to set up the rules
Men and women in marriage are inclined to take the request by their own criterion without considering a rule mutually approved,which led to the contradication from uninformed exclusion.
To avoid such unnecessary contrast, the husband should aware of the importance of the family rules. It's time to set up the feasible rules accredited by both sides.
The concept of the rules can be divided into the following aspects:
1. the resoective responsibility
2. the proper use and distribution of the family property
3. the attitude to the relatives
4. the arrangement of respective work
As a clue on the understanding towards the responsibility they should take, the rule dosen't mean the restriction for a happy family.
The third year:to determine head of the household
This determination is definitely not fhe contention of residence booklet .on the contrary, it emobodies not only the family's attitude inside and outside but also the reliable tendency of both sides in life. The aim is to consolidate the bearing point of marriage.
Such merits as extraversion and courage are by no means the prerequistte of the determination. The key is that who is able to and is willing to take the famility's serious responsibility or what's more, the endless trivials on the shoulder from the beginning to the end .Besides, the part should boast more rational and calmer behavior. To assure the household is to build a family's relationship so as to keep mutual balance.
(to be continued)
关键字:网友情怀
生词表:
the oath being swayed;
to betray or to obey?
to leave or to stay?
The distress haunted some friends with their only couples of years' marriage. how to get rid of the seven-year-itch?maybe the following suggestions I found in a Chinese website could give them hints.
A series of strategies to a successful marriage is what a precise timetable to a never off-the-trail train. For those husband already, specific plans is inevitable----for living a better and more valuable life inspite of waiting for it's approaching.
The first year :to enjoy the happiness
The second year:to set up the rules
Men and women in marriage are inclined to take the request by their own criterion without considering a rule mutually approved,which led to the contradication from uninformed exclusion.
To avoid such unnecessary contrast, the husband should aware of the importance of the family rules. It's time to set up the feasible rules accredited by both sides.
The concept of the rules can be divided into the following aspects:
1. the resoective responsibility
2. the proper use and distribution of the family property
3. the attitude to the relatives
4. the arrangement of respective work
As a clue on the understanding towards the responsibility they should take, the rule dosen't mean the restriction for a happy family.
The third year:to determine head of the household
This determination is definitely not fhe contention of residence booklet .on the contrary, it emobodies not only the family's attitude inside and outside but also the reliable tendency of both sides in life. The aim is to consolidate the bearing point of marriage.
Such merits as extraversion and courage are by no means the prerequistte of the determination. The key is that who is able to and is willing to take the famility's serious responsibility or what's more, the endless trivials on the shoulder from the beginning to the end .Besides, the part should boast more rational and calmer behavior. To assure the household is to build a family's relationship so as to keep mutual balance.
(to be continued)
关键字:网友情怀
生词表:
- precise [pri´sais]
a.精确的；清楚的 四级词汇 - considering [kən´sidəriŋ] prep.就...而论 四级词汇
- uninformed [,ʌnin´fɔ:md] a.未得到通知的 四级词汇
- feasible [´fi:zibəl] a.可行的，可实行的 六级词汇
- respective [ri´spektiv] a.各自的，各个的 四级词汇
- contention [kən´tenʃən] n.论点；竞争；争论 四级词汇
- booklet [´buklit] n.小册子 四级词汇
- consolidate [kən´sɔlideit] v.巩固；合并；联合 四级词汇
- rational [´ræʃənəl] a.(有)理性的；合理的 四级词汇
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