What Guys Want?!

Written by: Babydoll


It's quite hard for me to think how many times I've got a crush on someone. But this time is defenitly NOT THE ONE TIME of all those times! I've been tellin myself this in the morning, right after I started thinking of that I am going to have a dinner with THIS GUY tonight. I am not nervous, no, not at all! He will leave this town for 2 weeks the day after tomorrow as how he always does. Busy, busy... A good sign for mature men, but it's an unfortune for gals who are around them. And I guess I am always this unlucky gal who is hanging out with busy men. So I got to deal with it.

"As I promised, I will take you out for dinner this week." Said him, in his email, as the same as how he sounded last time when I met him in the bar. Don't mistaken me, I've known him for quite a few months already. We just always meet in the bar for drinks at weekends.

Hmmm... so there we go: I will have a date(if it is one) TONIGHT!

All of sudden, I am a little panicstriken. I don't even think I should have a reason to be. He's just A GUY (whom I had sex with), as the same among the others, except that we've got something in private, which is not a big deal. " I don't want a relationship!" Said by both of us. However, things seems going wrong. On his side, he's busy with his work, but somehow, he thinks that I wanted more (a relationship, he said, or whatever you call it). He's keeping concerning me his idea of having no relationship and being friend stuffs. He seems so freaked out. Or maybe he just wanted to concern himself that he didn't want to go deeper because he already liked me, but it seems more like an impossible relationship. Neither way, but certainly, that wasn't what I wanted. In the matter of the fact, I just wanted to have a good time with him. Maybe more directly to say, I would be so shameless to speak straight that I JUST WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH HIM. Don't get shocked though, I am just not available to open my heart once more for some guys. So I'd like to hang out with him, shag him (probably??), and most importantly I'd like to be his friend, or more than a normal female friend. But a Relationship?? Hell No! Let's say how about to call it BUDDYZ? I just don't understand why we've got the same idea, but we've still got some understanding or communication problems on this point. We had an argument last weekend just because of this to be or not to be problem. I was gettin so tired that I almost shouted out: YO KNOW WUT? I JUST WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU!! ... But, luckily I held my temper, so I didn't say it. Here comes we gotta meet tonight for the dinner! And I am puzzling for this very question that all gals have been asking for the whole time all myself!

WHAT GUYS WANT?

Gals always say that guys are dick-heads. Sex! That's the first thing coming out from the guys minds. Is it so? I would agree though. "Lust is very poewerful!..." A guy wrote this line in an email to me to explain the awkward making-out situation we had once when we were sober. Guys just can't help falling for the lusts. The desire is too strong, isn't it? Or that's just the nature for guys to flirt and hook up whenever they demand. Principle: Some guys have it, but most guys don't. I've met so many guys having wives or gfs, but still screwing around cuz they just can't help. That's just some good SEX! Said them. Maybe because I have hang out with too many guys. I started to get their rules. I am kind getting along with them now. Sex, yeah, nothing better than a full pulling situation. I have to say that I like to have a lot pleasure. Who doesn't? So in fact, sex is the thing not only guys are looking for but women! The main problem is what is coming after sex!

Some guys are pretty cool with one night stand stuffs. Some are totally fine with some short term one or two months relationships. What's the difference? He, this very guy Im gonna have dinner with tonight, has asked me once.
"I think one night stand is still pure sex, nothing but lust, but an one or two months relationship is considered as a short term relationship, which mean the ones in the relationship will put emotions involved. " I said.

Do you guys really want love? Sometimes I really wonder it. Most of the time, I see guys are rushing into some kind kinky sex things, and go wild. But when things are about love, no one is there any more. I LOVE YOU! This is probably the lamest thing for guys to say to gals, when they are up for sex! One of my gal friends from the US complained her bf to me on msn: He never says he loves me after a year relationship!
I don't know what to say to comfort her, but " That's how guys are, honey!"
By the time I said so, I felt pity for my gal friend and myself. Yeah, that's how guys are, and that's how we gals comfort ourselves by saying so. They would never be the ones you expect, they are GUYS!

No promise! That's the best promise! No lies, go free, do whatever you want!
--- giving out all those open minded rules for the games, we gals sometimes still couldnt win this game, because guys in fact don't know what they want!

I've had this exbf from the uni. We had perfect sex, loads fun, and we were having this free rules to each other in a very open relationship! We didn't cheat on each other, no that's the only rule we couldnt cross! What happened to us was that we got tired to each other! I was too keen on him, and he was just tired, not tired of me, just tired of the situation. So we broke up. That was not a big deal for me, but it did knocked me down for a while. What's wrong!? I kept asking him and myself. Nothing had gone wrong, he answered. Then he's got this dumb gf after me, and he started to ring me and asked me if I would keep a secret relationship beside. He's just very unsure for what he had been doing. He didn't want to break her heart, but he did want to dump her. What happened the next was we were keeping a sexualrelationship, more like a buddy call relationship till the day I left that city. He was cheating on his gf till they broke up. "One day, when I am tired, when you are tired, maybe we would be a good couple!" Said him once. I laughed, yeah, maybe that's guys true talking! One day when they are tired... and we are on the process of waiting for the coming of this ONE DAY!

What do you guys want? Love? Sex? Money? Power?
What do you guys want? Relationship? Family? Wife? Children? Simple life?
What do you guys really want? Romance? Excitement? Buzz? Chill??

By now, I am still thinking of this guy whom Im gonna meet tonight.
" 8:00pm, Japanese restaurant Keisu in the Machinary Hotel." His IM on my MSN. " That's a very stylish restaurant, and they've got good food as well!"
"Shall I dress up?" I asked.
"As long as you are dressed, I will be happy ;)," said him." PS: we will go to the bar after, so pick something nice..."

Yeah, certainly it is a date. What's going on? I thought we both didn't want to go for more things that couples do.

What guys want, I asked him...

Good question, I gotta think for a while... He turned his IM to BUSY and went back to work...

What do you guys really want??
This might be the question gals would keep asking for ever...

But now, guys in da house! Gimme some answer!

What do guys want??!!
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