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一直都很欣赏这种直接而肯定的回答，不是绝情，而是懂得放手。有时候，不管有多爱对方，既然一方已经想着要放手，就没有必要再做无谓的挽留。
I have been appreciating this definite answer, which indicates no cruelty, but knowing to let the love go. Sometimes, however you love your beloved, it is unnecessary to redeem/" target="_blank">redeem the relationship since the other is determined to let it go.
从不相并，亦或是互不相识的人相识，已经是一种难得的缘份。在这苍茫的人海里，不单单是遇上了，相识了，而且还携手一起走过一段，不管那段路长或短，期间的苦与甘，都是福气。
From unknown to known, it is a precious tie that binds you together. It is literally a blessing when you not only encounter each other, know each other and go hand in hand through way after way, however long or short, sweet or bitter.
上帝给的已经不少，也只能这么多了，他让两个本要擦肩的人牵了手，但他并没有力量去让这两个人一直走，一直走，直到生命的尽头。也可能，这是上帝给人的一种考验，没有经历过失去的人，又怎会懂得去珍惜呢？
God has given us enough and only just so, rendering the two hand in hand while they should have passed each other without any trace. But he fails to power the two to go on until the end of life. Or maybe, it is the challenge given by god to human who never knows to treasure before losing.
再离支破碎的感情也经历过美丽，正是如此，才让痴情的人要去挽留，可是，即使我们留住了他，也留不住去意已决的心。即便那是曾经拥有过的，遗失在彼此生命中的，已成为过去的美好。
All loves undergoes beauty before it is brought to a halt, however fragile/" target="_blank">fragile, thereby being worth our redeem/" target="_blank">redeeming it. Nonetheless, even though we are able to maintain it, we can barely maintain the loving heart that is gone. Though we once owned it, it is lost in each other's life and becomes the beautiful memories of the past.
心中再有不舍，不忍心和过去的甜蜜说再见，也于事无补了。毕竟，相爱要两个人一起开始，而分手，只要是其中一方有这个意愿，那是游戏规则已经挑破了，倒不如和他离去的背影说再见，送上一份祝福。
Reluctant to say goodbye to the past sweet as we are, our efforts are unavailing. After all, love begins with mutual affections, but ends as long as one of the two has the willing to terminate it. So the best choice is to say goodbye with a blessing in heart to his departure.
曾经对一个人说过："我们在茫茫的人海中是遇上了，还打了个招呼，坐了下来，望着对方，寻找着彼此在对方心里最适合的位置，三年后却发现那位置不合适自己，便又站起身来，打个招呼，又开始各自找寻去了。
I have once talked to one man, " we came across each other and greeted ,then sat, stared at each other and pinpoint the best position in each other's heart, then noticed that the position does not fit both of us, so we stand up again, waved goodbye and sought another way again."
爱情，不过是遵循着这样的一个潜规则，每个人都要找寻着想要的位置，一旦找到了，便能走远一些，甚至是生命的尽头。一旦找不到，便不得不站起身来，分道而行。每个人都有自己的梦，都有自己心里想要的那个人，一生的时间，说长却不能完成心里所有的夙愿，说短却能与一个本是陌人的地走完一生的漫漫......
Love is a actually a rule that everyone should comply with when they are seeking their positions. Once it is found, they can go farther even to the end of life. Otherwise, they have to stand up again and depart to different ways. Everyone has his dream and the one he desires. A lifetime is long but can hardly fulfill all the desires; it is short but can render two finish the whole journey of life......
总习惯把一双一对的背影认作你我，总把情歌里的词句当作心情，在离开一个人的时候，我们会怀念，会幻想，所以才有了挽留。
We are always used to reckoning couples of shadow as ours, lyrics in the love songs as our mood. So when leaving someone, we will miss, imagine and thereby redeem/" target="_blank">redeeming.
本已经知道爱情已经不存在，却还深深地捉紧对方的手不放开，一些小小的，朋友间的关怀却当作天大的希望。记得有一段爱情离开的时候，我正在做这样的傻事，好友便对我说："你呀，真不知道还好，可你明明就是明白的，还在装傻地去维系。"是啊，在那个时候，还有幻想，还有激情的时候，我不怕失败，因为我不想失去。
We already know the inexistence of love, but we still cling to his or her hands tightly and see some drops of friendly care as a great hope to redeem/" target="_blank">redeem the lost love. I was doing so when my first love was going away. My good friend said to me, " why do you lie to yourself by still trying to maintain your lost love?" yes, at that time when I still had illusion and passion, I did not dare failure and just did not want to lost her.
我挽留因为我还爱着，即使结果是换来疲惫的心，远走的人，逝去的爱，我也心甘，必竟我是努力过的，请笑笑与对方的背影说再见吧。衷心地祝福，潇洒地挥手，或者还能够让他怀念。收回曾经给过他的爱，吸吸气，住前......住前......总有你的他在前方。
I was seeking to redeem/" target="_blank">redeem it for I was still loving, which only exhausted my heart consequently. I have to surrender for I have tried my best to care the lost person and the lost love. So just smile to your beloved's shadow! A wholehearted blessing and waving may make him remember all the things in the past. Now you should put away all the love you have given to him and breathe a large draught, then go on and on, and you will find someone is waiting for you front!
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一直都很欣赏这种直接而肯定的回答，不是绝情，而是懂得放手。有时候，不管有多爱对方，既然一方已经想着要放手，就没有必要再做无谓的挽留。
I have been appreciating this definite answer, which indicates no cruelty, but knowing to let the love go. Sometimes, however you love your beloved, it is unnecessary to redeem/" target="_blank">redeem the relationship since the other is determined to let it go.
从不相并，亦或是互不相识的人相识，已经是一种难得的缘份。在这苍茫的人海里，不单单是遇上了，相识了，而且还携手一起走过一段，不管那段路长或短，期间的苦与甘，都是福气。
From unknown to known, it is a precious tie that binds you together. It is literally a blessing when you not only encounter each other, know each other and go hand in hand through way after way, however long or short, sweet or bitter.
上帝给的已经不少，也只能这么多了，他让两个本要擦肩的人牵了手，但他并没有力量去让这两个人一直走，一直走，直到生命的尽头。也可能，这是上帝给人的一种考验，没有经历过失去的人，又怎会懂得去珍惜呢？
God has given us enough and only just so, rendering the two hand in hand while they should have passed each other without any trace. But he fails to power the two to go on until the end of life. Or maybe, it is the challenge given by god to human who never knows to treasure before losing.
再离支破碎的感情也经历过美丽，正是如此，才让痴情的人要去挽留，可是，即使我们留住了他，也留不住去意已决的心。即便那是曾经拥有过的，遗失在彼此生命中的，已成为过去的美好。
All loves undergoes beauty before it is brought to a halt, however fragile/" target="_blank">fragile, thereby being worth our redeem/" target="_blank">redeeming it. Nonetheless, even though we are able to maintain it, we can barely maintain the loving heart that is gone. Though we once owned it, it is lost in each other's life and becomes the beautiful memories of the past.
心中再有不舍，不忍心和过去的甜蜜说再见，也于事无补了。毕竟，相爱要两个人一起开始，而分手，只要是其中一方有这个意愿，那是游戏规则已经挑破了，倒不如和他离去的背影说再见，送上一份祝福。
Reluctant to say goodbye to the past sweet as we are, our efforts are unavailing. After all, love begins with mutual affections, but ends as long as one of the two has the willing to terminate it. So the best choice is to say goodbye with a blessing in heart to his departure.
曾经对一个人说过："我们在茫茫的人海中是遇上了，还打了个招呼，坐了下来，望着对方，寻找着彼此在对方心里最适合的位置，三年后却发现那位置不合适自己，便又站起身来，打个招呼，又开始各自找寻去了。
I have once talked to one man, " we came across each other and greeted ,then sat, stared at each other and pinpoint the best position in each other's heart, then noticed that the position does not fit both of us, so we stand up again, waved goodbye and sought another way again."
爱情，不过是遵循着这样的一个潜规则，每个人都要找寻着想要的位置，一旦找到了，便能走远一些，甚至是生命的尽头。一旦找不到，便不得不站起身来，分道而行。每个人都有自己的梦，都有自己心里想要的那个人，一生的时间，说长却不能完成心里所有的夙愿，说短却能与一个本是陌人的地走完一生的漫漫......
Love is a actually a rule that everyone should comply with when they are seeking their positions. Once it is found, they can go farther even to the end of life. Otherwise, they have to stand up again and depart to different ways. Everyone has his dream and the one he desires. A lifetime is long but can hardly fulfill all the desires; it is short but can render two finish the whole journey of life......
总习惯把一双一对的背影认作你我，总把情歌里的词句当作心情，在离开一个人的时候，我们会怀念，会幻想，所以才有了挽留。
We are always used to reckoning couples of shadow as ours, lyrics in the love songs as our mood. So when leaving someone, we will miss, imagine and thereby redeem/" target="_blank">redeeming.
本已经知道爱情已经不存在，却还深深地捉紧对方的手不放开，一些小小的，朋友间的关怀却当作天大的希望。记得有一段爱情离开的时候，我正在做这样的傻事，好友便对我说："你呀，真不知道还好，可你明明就是明白的，还在装傻地去维系。"是啊，在那个时候，还有幻想，还有激情的时候，我不怕失败，因为我不想失去。
We already know the inexistence of love, but we still cling to his or her hands tightly and see some drops of friendly care as a great hope to redeem/" target="_blank">redeem the lost love. I was doing so when my first love was going away. My good friend said to me, " why do you lie to yourself by still trying to maintain your lost love?" yes, at that time when I still had illusion and passion, I did not dare failure and just did not want to lost her.
我挽留因为我还爱着，即使结果是换来疲惫的心，远走的人，逝去的爱，我也心甘，必竟我是努力过的，请笑笑与对方的背影说再见吧。衷心地祝福，潇洒地挥手，或者还能够让他怀念。收回曾经给过他的爱，吸吸气，住前......住前......总有你的他在前方。
I was seeking to redeem/" target="_blank">redeem it for I was still loving, which only exhausted my heart consequently. I have to surrender for I have tried my best to care the lost person and the lost love. So just smile to your beloved's shadow! A wholehearted blessing and waving may make him remember all the things in the past. Now you should put away all the love you have given to him and breathe a large draught, then go on and on, and you will find someone is waiting for you front!
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