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Really really sorry to read this piece, I don't know what to say! I don't boast myself being able to understand the emotional difficulties that you are going through now, because I simply don't. However, I do know, like most others as well, it is hard for you to end this. Although many people nowadays don't take marriage as serious as they should, but from what I know about you, you are not that kind of person. Therefore by coming to the conclusion of ending this relationship, you must have gone through more than others'.

I don't have useful suggestions or advices to give, because simply I am not entitled to do so. But I'd like to tell one thing which, once upon time, I over heard from TV, it doesn't seem to be useful to me now and in the immediate future, but it may have some useful implication to you. It was just a sentence, a simple one, described by a married celebrity, it goes: "in most cases including mine, marriage is not perfect, it requires hard work, commitment and giving-in to the things sometimes you have strong feelings about. Keeping the relationship going smoothly is THE most difficult job in the world, but once you succeed in accomplishing your goal, it gives the equal satisfaction as if you have won an Oscar" (I obviously cannot remember the exact words, but it goes something like it). The essence of what I want to say is, think marriage as a difficult task, if it was correct one that you were set out to complete, and the further you proceed, the more difficult you find it is; by making a divorce now, you are really giving up your task.... Now of course, if it is a wrong task initially, and you have just realised the nature of it now, and decide not to waste anytime on it, it is a wise decision.

Therefore, the core is whether it is a right task (marriage) or not. No one knows more than you do, you should know whether the person who have been sharing the same bed with you for all these years is the one that you want to complete this difficult task with or not.... That's why I said early on that I cannot, and I don't think any one will be able to, help you by giving any suggestions or advices.

It is hard to see through, I know, but it is just an uneasy link in a hard process of a difficult task. So are you giving up on a meaningful task that you have been tirelessly working on all the way through, or stopping wasting any of your valuable time on a worthless task??

It's your call!
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