"好人卡"源于某光棍向心仪的少女告白，但被对方以"你是个好人，但是我们不能在一起"为理由拒绝了，从此"你是个好人"就成为光棍被拒绝的代表性语言，而被发了"好人卡"就相当于被拒绝了。

"好人卡" stems from the confession of a young man to the girl of his dreams, who used the phrase, "You are a good man, but we can not be together" to reject him .  Since then, "You are a good man" has come to represent a bachelor being rejected; similarly, receiving a "好人卡" means rejection.

• phrase [freiz]   n.短语；词组；措词   (初中英语单词)
• yesterday [´jestədi]   n.&ad.昨天；前不久   (初中英语单词)
• confession [kən´feʃən]   n.招供；认错；交待   (高中英语单词)
• reject [ri´dʒekt]   vt.拒绝；抵制；否决   (高中英语单词)
• bachelor [´bætʃələ]   n.未婚男子；学士   (高中英语单词)
• saying [´seiŋ, ´sei-iŋ]   n.言语；言论；格言   (高中英语单词)
• similarly [´similəli]   ad.类似地，同样地   (英语四级单词)