深圳大学 赖小琪
我们当然应该努力做到最好,但人是无法要求完美的。我们面对的情况如此复杂,以致无人能始终都不出错。
We should endeavor to perform to the best, but no one can ever be perfect. The situations we face are so complex that no one can
guarantee no mistakes at all.
然而,有时人们并不能正确对待自己的过失。也许我们的父母期望我们完美无暇;也许我们的朋友常念叨我们的缺点,因为他们希望我们能够改正。而他们难以谅解的是因为我们的过失总在他们最脆弱的时候触痛了他们的心。
Nonetheless, now and again we fail to
confront our mistakes
bravely. Maybe our parents expect us to be thoroughly perfect, or maybe our friends constantly nag about our drawbacks, because they wish us to correct them. But most difficult for them to accept is that our mistakes always touch their
tenderness in heart at their utmost weakness.
这让我们感动负疚。但在承担过错之前,我们必须问问自己,那是否真是我们应背负的包袱。
It makes us
awfully guilty. But before we confess our mistakes, we ought to ask ourselves whether it should become a burden on our shoulders.
也许正是失去,才令我们完整。一个完美的人,在某种意义上说,是个可怜的人,他永远也无法体会有所追求、有所希冀的感觉,他永远也无法体会爱他的人带给他某些他一直求而不得的东西时的喜悦。
Maybe it is exactly the lost that makes us
intact. A perfect person, in some way, is a piteous man, who never experiences the feelings of pursuing and expecting, and never tastes the happiness from the thing he himself cannot acquire but his beloved gives it to him.
一个有勇气放弃他无法实现的梦想的人是完整的;一个能坚强的面对失去亲人的悲痛的人是完整的-因为他们经历了最坏的遭遇,却成功的抵御了这种冲击。
An
intact person refers to the one who has the courage to give up the would-not-come-true dream. A man who can strongly
confront the misery of losing family members is
literallyintact, for he has
undergone the worst situation, but has
successfully withstood the greatest
impact.
生命不是上帝用于捉弄你的错误的陷阱。你不会因为一个错误而成为不合格的人。生命是一场球赛,最好的球队也有丢分的记录,最差的球队也有辉煌的一天。我们的目标是尽可能让自己得到的多于失去的。
Life is not a trap the God uses to play a joke on you. You will not become a bad guy due to a sole mistake. Life otherwise is a ball match, in which the greatest team will have the record of losing scores, while the worst team will have the prime moment. Our goal is to try our best to gain more than loss.
当我们接受人的不完美时,当我们能为生命的继续运转而心存感激时,我们就能成就完整;而别的人却渴求完整-当他们为完美而困惑的时候。
When we acknowledge others' drawbacks and feel grateful to the nonstop function of life, we will be
intact and perfect, while others are still seeking to be
intact and feeling confused about perfect.
如果我们能勇敢去爱、去原谅,为别人的幸福而慷慨的表达我们的欣慰,理智的珍惜环绕自己的爱,那么,我们就能得到别的生命不曾获得的圆满。
If we can love and forgive
boldly,
generously express our comfort for the sake of others' happiness, and
cherish the love
surrounding us sensibly, then we can obtain the
perfection others cannot achieve.
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