Violet, or
purple, is the deep, soft color of darkness or shadows. People consider
violet a
dignified color. They
associate it with
loneliness. On Easter Sunday people
decorate baskets with
purple ribbons.White is the color of snow. People describe white as a pure, clean color. They
associate white with a bright clean feeling. Doctors and nurses
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normally wear white uniforms. On the other hand, black is the color of night. People wear black clothes at serious or
formal ceremonies.
Businessmen know that people choose products by color. Businessmen want to manufacture products which are the colors people will buy. For example, an automobile
manufacturer needs to know how many cars to paint red, how many green, and how many black. Good businessmen know that young people prefer different colors than old people do and men prefer different colors than women do.Young children react to the color of an object before they react to its shape. They prefer the warm colors - red, yellow, and orange. When people grow older, they begin to react more to the shape of an object than to its color. The favorite color of adults of all countries is blue. Their second favorite color is red, and their third is green.
On the whole, women prefer brighter colors than men do. Almost
everyone likes red, but women like yellow and green more than men do. Pink is usually considered a
feminine color. Blue is usually considered a
masculine color. As a result, people dress baby girls in pink and baby boys in blue. However, it is dangerous to generalize because taste changes. For example, years ago businessmen wore only white shirts; today they wear many different colors, including pink.If two objects are the same except for color, they will look different. Color can make an object look nearer or farther, larger or smaller. A red object always looks nearer than a blue object. For example, red letters on a blue sign look as though they are in front of the sign. Bright objects look larger than dark objects. However, they are
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actually the same size. Large or fat people who want to look smaller or slimmer wear dark clothes. When they wear dark clothes, they look smaller and slimmer than they are.
In
conclusion, color is very important to people. Warm and cool colors
affect how people feel. People choose products by color. Moreover, color
affects how an object looks. It is even possible that your favorite color tells a lot about you.23-A. Non-
verbal Communication
If anyone asked you what were the main means of
communication between people, what would you say? That isn't a catch question. The answer is simple and
obvious. It would almost certainly refer to means of
communication that
involve the use of words. Speakers and listeners-oral
communication, and writers and readers-written
communication. And you'd be quite right. There is, however, another form of
communication which we all use most of the time, usually without
knowing it. This is
sometimes called body language. Its more
technical name is non-
verbalcommunication. Non-
verbal, because it does not
involve the use of words. NVC for short.When someone is
saying something with which he agrees, the average European will smile and nod
approval. On the other hand, if you
disagree with what they are
saying, you may frown and shake your head. In this way you signal your reactions, and
communicate them to the
speaker without
saying a word. I referred a moment ago to "the average European", because body language is very much tied to
culture, and in order not to
misunderstand, or not to be misunderstood, you must realize this. A smiling Chinese, for
instance, may not be approving but somewhat embarrassed.
Quite a lot of work is now being done on the subject of NVC, which is
obviously important, for
instance, to managers, who have to deal every day with their staff, and have to understand what other people are feeling if they are to create good
working conditions. Body language, or NVC signals, are
sometimes categorised into five kinds: 1.body and
facialgestures; 2.eye
contact; 3.body
contact or "proximity"; 4.clothing and
physical appearance; and 5.the quality of speech. I expect you understood all those, except perhaps "proximity." This simply means "closeness". In some
cultures-and I am sure this is a
cultural feature and not an individual one-it is quite
normal for people to stand close together, or to more or less
thrust their face into yours when they are talking to you. In other
cultures, this is disliked; Americans, for
instance, talk about
invasion of their space.Some signals are probably common to all of us. If a public
speaker (like a professor, for example) is all the time fiddling with a pencil, or with his glasses, while he is talking to you, he is telling you quite clearly that he is
nervous. A person who holds a hand over his mouth when he is talking is signalling that he is
lacking in confidence. If you start wriggling in your chairs, looking
secretly at your watches or yawning behind your hands, I shall soon get the message that I'm boring you. And so on. I'm sure you could make a whole list of such signals-and it might be fun if you did.
All the signals I have mentioned so far can be controlled. If you are aware that you are doing these things, you can stop. You can even learn to give false signals. Most public
speakers are in fact
nervous, but a good
speaker learns to hide this by giving off signals of confidence. Other kinds of NVC are not so easy to control. Eye
contact, for
instance. Unless you are confessing
intense love, you hardly ever look into someone else's eyes for very long. If you try it, you'll find they will soon away, probably in embarrassment.I've already mentioned proximity, so just a brief word now about our last two categories, which concern the way people dress and the way they speak. These are both pretty
obvious signals. People may dress casually and speak casually, which signals that they are relaxed. Or they can dress
formally and speak
formally, showing their tenseness. In fact, non-
verbalcommunication can, as the
saying goes, speak volumes.
23-B. Body TalkHave you ever wondered why you
sometimes take an almost immediate
liking to a person you have just met? Or worried about why someone you were talking to suddenly became cool and distant? The chances are that it wasn't anything that was said but something that happened: a
gesture, a
movement, a smile. Social
scientists are now devoting
considerable attention to "non-
verbalcommunication," what happens when people get together, apart from their
actual conversation.
Professor Erving Goffman of the University of Pennsylvania is
involved in a continuing study of the way people
behave in social interaction. He feels that
gestures,
movements and
physical closeness have meaning which the words that the people are using do not carry.The closeness of two people when talking,
movement towards and away from each other, and the
amount of eye
contact all reveal some-thing about the nature of the
relationship between the two individuals. We tend to be only subconsciously aware, if at all, of the various pat-terns and rituals of social
behavior. We expect other people to act according to the same "rules" that we do, so much so that the manners and
behavior of persons from another
culture can be
extremely confus1Ilg.