middle of the
apartment with his eyes shut, and without tasting a
morsel. His going to the synagogue, and then repairing to
breakfast with the bride, where he practises the same self-denial -
the washing of the
bridegroom's plate and sending it after him,
that he may break his fast - the
binding his hands behind him - his
ransom paid by the bride's mother - the visit of the sages to the
bridegroom - the mulct imposed in case he
repent - the killing of
the bullock at the house of the
bridegroom - the present of meat
and fowls, meal and spices, to the bride - the gold and silver -
that most
imposing part of the
ceremony, the walking of the bride
by torchlight to the house of her betrothed, her eyes fixed in
vacancy,
whilst the youths of her
kindred sing their wild songs
around her - the cup of milk and the spoon presented to her by the
bridegroom's mother - the
arrival of the sages in the morn - the
reading of the Ketuba - the night - the half-enjoyment - the old
woman - the tantalising knock at the door - and then the festival
of fishes which concludes all, and leaves the jaded and wearied
couple to
repose after a
fortnight of persecution.
The Jews, like the Gypsies, not unfrequently ruin themselves by the
riot and waste of their marriage festivals. Throughout the entire
fortnight, the houses, both of bride and
bridegroom, are flung open
to all corners; - feasting and song occupy the day - feasting and
song occupy the hours of the night, and this continued revel is
only broken by the ceremonies of which we have endeavoured to
convey a faint idea. In these festivals the sages or ULEMMA take a
distinguished part, doing their
utmost to ruin the contracted
parties, by the wonderful
despatch which they make of the fowls and
viands, sweetmeats, AND STRONG WATERS provided for the occasion.
After marriage the Gypsy
females generally continue
faithful to
their husbands through life; giving evidence that the exhortations
of their mothers in early life have not been without effect. Of
course licentious
females are to be found both
amongst the matrons
and the
unmarried; but such instances are rare, and must be
considered in the light of exceptions to a principle. The Gypsy
women (I am
speaking of those of Spain), as far as corporeal
chastity goes, are very paragons; but in other respects, alas! -
little can be said in praise of their morality.
CHAPTER VIII
WHILST in Spain I
devoted as much time as I could spare from my
grand object, which was to
circulate the Gospel through that
benighted country, to attempt to
enlighten the minds of the Gitanos
on the subject of religion. I cannot say that I
experienced much
success in my endeavours; indeed, I never expected much, being
fully acquainted with the stony nature of the ground on which I was
employed; perhaps some of the seed that I scattered may eventually
spring up and yield excellent fruit. Of one thing I am certain:
if I did the Gitanos no good, I did them no harm.
It has been said that there is a secret
monitor, or
conscience,
within every heart, which immediately upbraids the individual on
the
commission of a crime; this may be true, but certainly the
monitor within the Gitano breast is a very
feeble one, for little
attention is ever paid to its reproofs. With regard to
conscience,
be it permitted to observe, that it varies much according to
climate, country, and religion; perhaps
nowhere is it so terrible
and strong as in England; I need not say why. Amongst the English,
I have seen many individuals
stricken low, and broken-hearted, by
the force of
conscience; but never
amongst the Spaniards or
Italians; and I never yet could observe that the crimes which the
Gitanos were daily and hourly committing occasioned them the
slightest uneasiness.
One important discovery I made among them: it was, that no
individual, however
wicked and hardened, is utterly GODLESS. Call
it
superstition, if you will, still a certain fear and
reverence of
something
sacred and
supreme would hang about them. I have heard
Gitanos
stiffly deny the
existence of a Deity, and express the
utmostcontempt for everything holy; yet they
subsequently never
failed to
contradict themselves, by permitting some expression to
escape which belied their assertions, and of this I shall presently
give a
remarkable instance.
I found the women much more disposed to listen to anything I had to
say than the men, who were in general so taken up with their
traffic that they could think and talk of nothing else; the women,
too, had more
curiosity and more
intelligence; the conversational
powers of some of them I found to be very great, and yet they were
destitute of the slightest rudiments of education, and were thieves
by
profession. At Madrid I had regular conversaziones, or, as they
are called in Spanish, tertulias, with these women, who generally
visited me twice a week; they were
perfectly unreserved towards me
with respect to their actions and practices, though their
behaviour, when present, was
invariablystrictly proper. I have
already had cause to mention Pepa the sibyl, and her daughter-in-
law, Chicharona; the manners of the first were sometimes almost
elegant, though, next to Aurora, she was the most
notorious she-
thug in Madrid; Chicharona was good-humoured, like most fat
personages. Pepa had
likewise two daughters, one of whom, a very
remarkablefemale, was called La Tuerta, from the circumstance of
her having but one eye, and the other, who was a girl of about
thirteen, La Casdami, or the scorpion, from the
malice which she
occasionally displayed.
Pepa and Chicharona were
invariably my most
constant visitors. One
day in winter they arrived as usual; the One-eyed and the Scorpion
following behind.
MYSELF. - 'I am glad to see you, Pepa: what have you been doing
this morning?'
PEPA. - 'I have been telling baji, and Chicharona has been stealing
a pastesas; we have had but little success, and have come to warm
ourselves at the brasero. As for the One-eyed, she is a very
sluggard (holgazana), she will neither tell fortunes nor steal.'
THE ONE-EYED. - 'Hold your peace, mother of the Bengues; I will
steal, when I see occasion, but it shall not be a pastesas, and I
will hokkawar (
deceive), but it shall not be by telling fortunes.
If I
deceive, it shall be by horses, by jockeying. (58) If I
steal, it shall be on the road - I'll rob. You know already what I
am
capable of, yet
knowing that, you would have me tell fortunes
like yourself, or steal like Chicharona. Me dinela conche (it
fills me with fury) to be asked to tell fortunes, and the next
Busnee that talks to me of bajis, I will knock all her teeth out.'
THE SCORPION. - 'My sister is right; I, too, would sooner be a
salteadora (highwaywoman), or a chalana (she-jockey), than steal
with the hands, or tell bajis.'
MYSELF. - 'You do not mean to say, O Tuerta, that you are a jockey,
and that you rob on the highway.'
THE ONE-EYED. - 'I am a chalana, brother, and many a time I have
robbed upon the road, as all our people know. I dress myself as a
man, and go forth with some of them. I have robbed alone, in the
pass of the Guadarama, with my horse and escopeta. I alone once
robbed a cuadrilla of twenty Gallegos, who were returning to their
own country, after cutting the harvests of Castile; I stripped them
of their
earnings, and could have stripped them of their very
clothes had I wished, for they were down on their knees like
cowards. I love a brave man, be he Busne or Gypsy. When I was not
much older than the Scorpion, I went with several others to rob the
cortijo of an old man; it was more than twenty leagues from here.
We broke in at
midnight, and bound the old man: we knew he had
money; but he said no, and would not tell us where it was; so we
tortured him, pricking him with our
knives and burning his hands