爱情是盲目的,至少是晃眼的
Love is blind, said Shakespeare. Now it seems there may be some truth in the bard's words.
Researchers have found that people who are in love pay less visual attention to attractive people of the opposite sex.
Jon Maner at Florida State University in Tallahassee, US, and colleagues asked 57 students in heterosexual relationships to write about occasions they felt extreme love towards their partner. Another 56 students wrote about feeling extreme happiness.
The students then viewed 500 microsecond flashes of 60 photos, comprising equal numbers of highly attractive men, highly attractive women, average-looking men, and average-looking women.
As the faces disappeared, a square or a circle appeared elsewhere on the screen. The students were instructed to identify the object as quickly as possible - a measure of a person's visual attention at a subconscious level.
Students primed with thoughts of love took significantly less time to identify shapes after viewing an attractive face of the opposite sex, compared with those who had written essays on happiness.
Repulsive beauty
"We found that when people just thought about being in love with their current partner, their visual attention got repelled, rather than grabbed, by an attractive member of the opposite sex," says Maner. The
finding may help explain why those in love do not seek out other, perhaps better, mates.
"[The repulsion] happens at the very
initial stages of visual processing, at the very first moment they are aware of the photo," says Maner.
Previous studies had suggested that people in committed relationships put less value on
potentialalternative partners. For example, they will claim to find
potentialalternative partners less attractive than single people do.
But what has been unclear - until now - is whether that is what they really think, or whether they are
trying to convince themselves that they have made the right choice. In the current study, the repulsive affect was so rapid, that the students would not have been able to exert conscious control over it.
Evolutionary advantage
Only attractive
potential partners appear to have the repelling affect, as the two groups of students took the same time to identify the shapes when viewing average-looking faces, or faces of the same sex.
"Psychologists have long had a problem explaining the functions of romantic love: a very strong emotion that sometimes seems to take over our lives and lead to what appear to be irrational feelings and actions," says Joseph Forgas, a social
psychologist at the University of New South Wales in Sydney.
"What these studies suggest is that romantic love serves a very important function, tempering our natural desire to pay attention to, and to
continuously seek out, the best available mate," he says.
A subconscious repulsion by attractive members of the opposite sex could have evolved because committed relationships may provide a reproductive advantage by improving the chances that offspring survive.
萨翁曾说过:"爱情是盲目的"。现在看来这位诗瓮所言确有几分道理。
研究发现坠入爱河的情侣们对迷人异性的视觉关注会自然变少。
美国塔拉哈西佛罗里达州立大学的Jon Maner及其同事们曾让57名学生写下在异性关系中让他们产生炙热爱恋情绪的情况并让另外56名学生描述他们极致开心的状态。
接着,他们安排学生观看了一个500微秒, 60张照片的动画,里面包括相同数量极具魅力或长相普通的男女。
动画过后,一个正方形或圆形便出现在屏幕上。此时,让学生们以尽可能快的速度辩认--通过这个测试来衡量人们潜意识中的视觉关注。
非常明显的是,相对于此前专注于描述快乐感受的学生们,想着爱恋关系的学生在观看异性迷人的脸蛋后能更快的辨认出图形。
令人抗拒的丽颜
Maner说,"我们发现当人们心系目前的恋人时,他们对迷人异性的视觉关注会出现排斥而不是相应的应和"。这个发现或许可以解释为什么那些热恋中的人们不去寻找另一个可能更为合适的伴侣。
"当他们看见照片的那一刻,【排斥反应】便会在视觉处理过程中最为初的始阶段出现"
此前的研究表明有固定恋爱关系的人们会较少关注可选择的潜在伴侣。例如,他们会觉得可选择的潜在伴侣吸引力不如单身异性。
但是目前尚不清楚的是,究竟这是他们的真实想法,或只是他们试图说服自己曾经的选择是正确的。当前试验中,这种排斥反应非常迅速,学生们不可能来得及用意识去控制。
进化优势
只有魅力十足的潜在伴侣会有这种排斥反应,因为当两组同学观看普通长相或同性的面孔后,他们均能同时辨认出各种图形。
悉尼新南威尔士大学的社会心理学家Joseph Forga 认为,"浪漫爱情是种强烈的情绪,这种情绪有时会掌控我们的全部生活甚至引起一些看似不合理的情绪和行为。长期以来,心理学家一直都苦于不知如何给其作用下定义。"
他还说,"这些研究表明,浪漫爱情一非常重要的功能是能激发人们关注和不懈追求最佳伴侣的本能。"
恋爱因其能提高生殖而有了繁衍上的优势,从而可能使恋人加剧自身潜意识里对迷人异性的排斥。
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