这两天回到学校，又开始了忙碌的生活。平时白天都在图书馆学习，晚上和向阳陪练雅思口语，过得虽然忙，但是还是很惬意。

昨天好久没见的高中老同学东志来找我玩了，陪了他整个下午，吃饭逛校园聊天，非常愉快。晚上和向阳练完口语回到深大已是10点多，整个人累得快崩溃了。收到在科技园工作的旭明发来的信息，告诉我说他的BEC高级过了而且拿了C， 在替他高兴的同时我才知道原来可以查成绩了。一打开电脑，看到邮箱里新东方的谢老师发过来给我的本次BEC高级考试通过的考生列表，可惜只有学号和生日以及等级，没有名字。数了一下，一共有18个人过了考试，和上次的一样。接着就是不断地收到同学的信息叫我帮他们查成绩。我本来是怀着愉快的心情去查的，可是结果却让我很抱歉，因为他们几乎都过不了。有些同学在上次的中级考试中考得不错，可是这次却依然过不了，我不免有些遗憾，所以发回信息给他们时我都有点不好意思。肖冰听说自己过了，高兴得不得了，听她在群里说她开始不敢相信自己过了，等证实了以后就拼命向同学朋友报喜。这让我想起了去年我得知自己考过时的情景，真的非常激动人心！最后给电话我的人，是本次BEC高级考试以78分获得深圳考区的状元刘弈华。他在福田一家出口企业从事国际贸易工作的，已经大学毕业两年了。他高兴得不得了，说他作梦也想不到考了最高分，之前还怕过不了。其实从他来英语角和我进行口语交流时我就发现他的英语超强，特别是对国际贸易实务非常熟练，让我无比佩服，我们一聊起来就停不了。由于他的工作原因所以只来了英语角两次。他一直在电话里谢我帮他找到了口语考试伙伴以及之前指导他练习。谢到我都不好意思了。其实也没有帮他多大忙，只是之前他找不到伙伴我陪他练了几次罢了。而且和他练习的确是人生一大快事，也让我感到了很大的压力。所以他考好是我意料之中的事，呵呵。

中级成绩也快出来了，真的祝愿同学朋友们考出好成绩！

深圳大学 赖小琪

每天跟不同的朋友混在一块，跟他们欢声笑语的，其实那只是在自欺欺人，只不过是不想让别人看到我伤心的一面，伤心只是自己给自己找事，何必带坏别人的情绪呢？

Dealing with diverse friends and laughing seemingly happily with them, I know I am actually burying my head in the sand. I just do not want to expose my negative side to others. To my mind, sadness is my own matter, which should not be disturbing to others.

别人总说我朋友多，其实根本就没几个朋友，很多都仅仅是认识而已，真正能交的来的人寥寥无几，而现在恰恰这些人都已离开，现在才有了时间来享受寂寞，有人曾说男人要学会享受寂寞，一开始觉得这话挺可笑的，怎么会有人去享受寂寞呢？

Many people say that I have a wealth of friends, but as a matter of fact, I do not. Many of them are merely acquaintances. Few are bosom friends. Now many of them are gone and I have time to enjoy solitariness. It has ever been said that man should learn to enjoy loneliness. In the very beginning I felt it was rather ridiculous and was wondering who would like to enjoy loneliness.

有些东西只有你长到一定年龄，有了一定的社会阅历之后才会理解的，就像这句话，以前觉得那么可笑的话，现在要做起来居然是那么的困难。其实每个人都有孤独寂寞的一面，但又有几个人能够享受寂寞呢，很多人不是在寂寞中堕落就是在寂寞后消沉，能够从寂寞中走出的人不多，能够享受寂寞的更是屈指可数。

Something can be interpreted only when you reach a certain age and acquire certain social experiences. Just like the above sentence which I thought to be absurd, now I come to realize that it is no easy thing to follow it. Factually speaking, everyone has a side of loneliness in heart, but how many of us know to appreciate loneliness? Conversely, many are falling into degradation. Few people can walk out of loneliness, not to mention enjoying it.

很多人在谈恋爱的时候都要分清一个问题：就是你是为了躲避寂寞而找恋人呢，还是你真正喜欢她。我不知道为什么有人会想出这种问题，你觉得你能真正分清楚吗？难道你找个恋人是在随便找吗？而不是因为你喜欢她？难道你找到恋人之后就不会再有寂寞吗？你是否找恋人跟你现在是否寂寞这根本就不着边际，只不过是有些人在恋爱失败之后的一个借口，用来安慰自己的借口。

Many people intend to clarify one point before we fall in love with someone: we find a lover in order to escape loneliness or because we truly love him or her? I do not know why they come up with this point, but do you think we can really throw light upon it? Do you think you will find a lover casually just because you feel lonely? Do you think after finding a lover you will never feel lonely? Actually there is no necessary relation between loneliness and lover. Some people just use it as an excuse to soothe themselves after the failure of love.

每个人都有贪欲，总想找到自己最爱的人，但在找到最爱的人之前会有一堆替代品；每个人都有自私的一面，既然相恋她就属于你一个人的，想牢牢地把她抓住；每个人都有无私的一面，为了自己最爱的人可以为她付出一切，却不记回报，哪怕她对你毫无感觉甚至是讨厌，你还是会对她一如既往。

Everyone is greedy to some extent and eager to find his beloved, but before they succeed, they will find tons of substitutes. Everyone is selfish to some extent and wants to grasp his beloved tightly out of the thought that she only belongs to him. But everyone is also selfless in some way and can sacrifice everything for his beloved without thinking of repayment, even though she has no feels to him even hates him.

这就是人，既然做不了神，那就做一个普普通通的人吧！人是有七情六欲的，人是有私心杂念的，大多数人都是感性的，所以在你伤心难过的时候，不必瞧不起自己，看低自己，每个人都有他脆弱的一面，只不过每个人的排解方式不同。

This is the way of man. Since we cannot be a god, let us become an average person. We have emotional and sexual needs as well as self-oriented behaviors. Most of us are sentimental, so when you are in agony, do not look down upon yourself. You should harbor in mind that every one has a fragile side in heart and has different ways to drain it away.

也许某个时间在某个空间里他正在独自落泪，体会人生的艰辛，只是他留给别人的永远都是最坚强的一面，这种人的生活是很累的，所以当你见到这种人脆弱的时候，就把他当个孩子来呵护吧！他要么是把你当作了最亲近的人，要么就是他实在太累，撑不起自己那疲倦的灵魂了。也许你见惯了他的坚强他的男子汉气概，突然看到他脆弱的一面你会觉得他失败了，消沉了，但当你静下心来好好想想自己难过伤心的时候，也许你就会体会他的累和他的无奈了。

Maybe at some time in some place he is tearing alone under the torture of life, but he will simply unveil the strongest appearance in front of others. Such kind of life is really painstaking. Therefore, when you see him weak, you can treat him as a kid. He may either treat you as a close one or feel too weary to deal with you. Maybe you get used to seeing his strong image, so when he show his weak side, you will feel that he is sinking to the bottom of life. But when you calm down and think of the time when you were down, you can truly understand his weariness and helplessness.

每个人都有脆弱的时候，每个人都有享受被爱的权利，当别人为你付出的时候，要学会感恩，也许他并不需要你有什么过多的回报，只是在他失落的时候，能有个人陪他聊天陪他喝酒就已足够。

Everyone will encounter a time when he feels frail and everyone is entitled to be loved. When someone sacrifices for you, you should know to feel grateful to him. Maybe he does not need your repayment, but he is yearning for someone who can drink with him when down.

上帝对每个人是公平的，你不会失败一辈子，但总会消沉一阵子，这也就是你重新来过的最佳时期，能够在寂寞中享受人生，那你很快就会见到彩虹的。

God is fair to everyone. You will not fail all your life, but surely you will meet some upset times, which may be the best opportunities for you to start another new life. If you know to enjoy solitariness of life, you will open your arms to the fantasticrainbow soon!
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