As little children, most of us were taught the virtue of
honesty from fairy tales and
other stories. The story lf Pinocchio, who brgins life as a
puppet, teaches us the
importance of telling truth. In the story of young George Washington, who lies about
cutting down the
cherry tree, we learn that he earns his father's praise only when he
admits what he has done. Even though we know that"
honesty is the best policy," why do we
often lie in our
everyday life? The fact is that we lie for many reasons.
We sometimes lie to
minimize our errors and mistakes. For example, some students might
lie to their teachers about
unfinished homework. They might say that they left the word at
home when, in fact, they didn't even do the work. These sutdents don't want to be
irresponsible,so they make up a lie to save face.
Another reason wo lie is to get otu of situations wo don't want to be in. If wo just
don't want to attend the dorm meeting early on saturday mirning,we might give this
excuse:"I've been fighting off a cold all week, and I need to sleep on saturday morning."
We lie because we believe that telling the truth will cause problems. When wo don't know
how to say no, we often use lies to avoid difficulties.
However, lies are not always
negative; in fact two kinds of lies can yield
positiveresults. The first is
commonly referred to as a "white lie." We tell white lies when wo
don't want to hurt other people's feelings. For example if a good friend shows up with an
unflattering haircut is awful. It doesn't suit you at all!" Instead, we are more likely to
lie and say, "I like your haircut.It looks good on you," and spare our friend's feelings.
The second kind of
positive lie is the"protective lie." This one can help us get out of or
avoid dangerous situations. Parents often teach their children to use this kind of lie. For
example, parents tell their children not to say that they are home alone if they receive
phone calls from strangers. In this situation, lying can prevent harm or disaster.
People lie for many reasons, both good and bad. However, before we resort to lying to
cover up mistakes or to avoid
unpleasant situations, perhaps we should rethink our motives
for lying.
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